Warbler said:

I don't know, I think maybe God doesn't want me to be with someone. Also, I am just too shy. I've never been able to talk to a woman in that way. The one time I did find the courage to tell a woman how I felt about her, it ended in disaster. I am not going to tell to the story here, but trust me it was a disaster. After that, I don't think I'll ever be able to tell another woman how I feel about her. Maybe it is a sign that there isn't someone out there for me.

...and yet somewhere in this world likely exists a girl who would be overjoyed to make your acquaintance, but she cannot find you because she is not currently canvassing your neighborhood...very frustrating for the both of you...perhaps you need to be more present in the world so that she might better locate you..?

Although we would mark your absence...