"My mom's a saint! Go chug some dick!" :p
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Okay, now that I'm done channeling Stifler in American Pie 2, I'll just say it was a conclusion I came to all on my own, and have never had any reason to talk about in real life. lol It's actually something I find a bit alarming myself, not being into pain and all, but I'll stick up for other people's right to express themselves in a way that feels right for them, when some would seek to label them as if they were unhealthy. The need of empathy towards others to understand where they are coming from is clear in such matters.
It was actually the movie Secretary that first got me thinking about such things.