But the fault does lie with you… you're the one insisting on using your own made-up acronym for something that already has one. DVD-BOY demonstrated that the correct acronym is well-established legally and commercially, and as I pointed out, the acronym you're refusing to use appears on the spine of almost every single commercial Blu-ray ever produced.
Whatever your reasons for disliking the acronym for BD are your own foibles, and have nothing to do with anybody else. The resistance you're seeing is because it's silly to just show up somewhere (particularly a message board as technically-oriented as this one), start using your own personal terminology nobody else uses, and not expect to be called out on it.