Sidebar:

I would recommend you abandon that attitude Warbler. I am NOT saying this out of a place of hate or scorn or shame, just genuine concern. Bullying is NEVER, EVER going to go away. Ever. Ever. There will always be bullies. You have to learn to deal with them and learn from them. Trying to "stop bullying" such as what schools seem to be obsessed with these days, although coming from a good intention, is going to be a fruitless venture and will not happen. Teaching how to cope with bullying will be much more effective, or else we will just be teaching people how to be victims. You will not get rid of bullying, you are much better off coping with them.

That being said, you are not a loser Warbler, and never let anybody tell you that you are. Anybody that tells you you are a loser is only reflecting their own insecurities to you in an effort to assure themself that if they can make you feel like a loser then they aren't one. It's all a hoax, the bullies are the real losers. The victims aren't the losers, so don't let them fool you into thinking you are.