NeverarGreat said:

Wait a minute, does Ben ever know who Leia even is in the OT version of events?

In ROTJ Ben tells Luke that Leia is his sister (ok, he doesn't say "Leia" but he does say that the Other is "Your twin sister" and then confirms that Luke got it right.) and that they were separated at birth and hidden from their father. So yes.

DuracellEnergizer said:

Han and Leia fell in love during ESB and there never was a love triangle in the films.

Fixed that for ya.

Sometimes I feel like the Star Wars films I've seen are not the same ones others saw...