The message of the movie is that woman should just do whatever men want and not think for themselves,that's pretty sexist if you ask me.

Also if you have to not think about a movie for it to work then the movie has failed. The problem is not with the viewer it's with the writers and film makers who should have given some degree of thought to what they were putting on screen.

If a 14 year old girl can spot the problem then there is no excuse for a highly paid writer and director who worked on the project not spotting it.

If you like it good for you but that doesn't mean the message is not there or it is a good message and people should not be required to become brain dead in order not to spot the message.

In fact if you do have to stop thinking about it to not get the message then the message is there you are just choosing to ignore it in order to enjoy the movie.

Now there is nothing wrong with that at all but there is also nothing wrong with people who spot the message and don't enjoy the movie because of it.