Possessed said:
Okay, so they aren't "techincally" whores by the strict definition of the word. That was so far from being the point. And there wasn't even really a point to begin with, I was just venting about it. Maybe bingo would feel better if I edited all the posts and changed the word "whores" to "hussies". Which means an immoral woman. That fits better anyway.
And actually I don't remember ever calling my mother a whore, but I'll take your word for it that I did at some point because I'm too lazy to go back and look.
But fine. I'll admit it. My former friend isn't a whore. Hussie fits better, since it means more closely what people usually mean when they say whore. Feel better?
Possessed, don't worry about Bingo too much. Don't listen to him. He's an insensitive, overbearing, arrogant, smug, egotisitical, classless, condescending, selfish, self righteous, self-centered jerk.
I just re-read your first post on the subject, you never called your a mother a whore.
While, I am not sure I would use the term whore desribe your ex-friend(or your mother for that matter), it is understandable why you said it about your ex-friend(and perhaps thought it about your mother). Yeah, it might not fit the technical difinition of the word whore, but it is still understandable. People are not robots, computers, or dictionaries. We do not always go by the textbook difinitions of words, especially when we are hurt. Bingo should have have been smart enough to realize that you didn't mean the exact dictionary difinition of the word and that you weren't looking up in the dictionary every word that you typed. As I said, Possessed, don't worry about. Its typical Bingowings.
My heart goes out to you. I am sorry that you are going through so much right now. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
btw, Bingo this time I read all of the posts you made. I had too, or none of the discussion here would have made any sense. Believe it or not, I am truly sorry for the difficulties you had with your ex, especially the infidelity and abuse. That must have been more difficult than I can imagine. It is mystifying why someone who has been through all that has so little sympathy for someone who is going through what Possessed is going through.