Possessed said:
Bingowings said:
See this is why you need to (at the risk of sounding insensitive) get out more.
I recommend a dose of ritual activity. Along with the usual domestic tasks of cleaning your own clothes, tidying your own living space and preparing your own food you should set some time in the week to mingle. Walk somewhere, talk to strangers and maybe join some sort in some sort of activity where have to interact with real people who aren't on the end of a computer (even and indeed especially if at first it seems a chore and maybe even uncomfortable).
Fuck you man. As I plainly said, I have plenty of friends. They may not be real friends or caring or genuine, but they are there and they aren't on computers. I do NOT spend all my time on a computer, I do NOT get all my socializing from the internet or computers, and I do NOT spend all my time at home. I said the friendships aren't very genuine. This may be true, but we still go out and hang out and stuff.
Sometimes people just feel bad on the inside. As shocking as it may seem, it's not always because they don't live the way you think they should. Because I am not a homebody. I do go out. I may not have close ties with my friends, but we do hang out very regularly.
I'm not quite the loser you apparently think that I am. And I'm not in a crisis over this or devastated. It just kinda sucks right now. I wasn't reaching for help I was just venting about it. You can keep your stuck up wisdom, I don't need it. Just because I'm not happy doesn't mean it's because I sit at home by myself all day, because that isn't the case. But thanks anyway.
I didn't say you were a loser but you do submit sexual advances that are not welcome. You openly paint a picture of two independently minded women who have sexual experiences you don't agree with as whores rather than imagining the possibility that they both may have been unhappy in the situations they were previously in and lacked the fortitude to back of of it gracefully.
And you came here to talk about it. If you don't want feedback from you posts don't post.
How do you know this woman wasn't your friend? Friends aren't perfect or reliable. Most people find it hard enough to keep their own mental furniture tidy, to expect them to clean up after they leave is maybe too optimistic. The world is a complicated place sometimes it doesn't go the way you like. It wasn't designed with you in mind.