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Possessed
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If you need to B*tch about something... this is the place
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Date created
8-Sep-2014, 11:43 PM

Bingowings said:

See this is why you need to (at the risk of sounding insensitive) get out more.

I recommend a dose of ritual activity. Along with the usual domestic tasks of cleaning your own clothes, tidying your own living space and preparing your own food you should set some time in the week to mingle. Walk somewhere, talk to strangers and maybe join some sort in some sort of activity where have to interact with real people who aren't on the end of a computer (even and indeed especially if at first it seems a chore and maybe even uncomfortable).

 Fuck you man.  As I plainly said, I have plenty of friends.  They may not be real friends or caring or genuine, but they are there and they aren't on computers.  I do NOT spend all my time on a computer, I do NOT get all my socializing from the internet or computers, and I do NOT spend all my time at home.  I said the friendships aren't very genuine.  This may be true, but we still go out and hang out and stuff.  

Sometimes people just feel bad on the inside.  As shocking as it may seem, it's not always because they don't live the way you think they should.  Because I am not a homebody.  I do go out.  I may not have close ties with my friends, but we do hang out very regularly.

I'm not quite the loser you apparently think that I am.  And I'm not in a crisis over this or devastated.  It just kinda sucks right now.  I wasn't reaching for help I was just venting about it.  You can keep your stuck up wisdom, I don't need it.  Just because I'm not happy doesn't mean it's because I sit at home by myself all day, because that isn't the case.  But thanks anyway.