For what it's worth I'm a Star Trek fan of only the Original Series and their films (TWOK especially of course) and I loved STID. I think I get the fan outrage but at the end of the day when I watch it I think "hey, that's a pretty good movie." Inappropriate allusions and continuity fucks aside, it's a well made and entirely enjoyable film.
On the other hand, I too am not super looking forward to the next film as it no longer has its best component (JJ) and it has replaced him with its worst element (Roberto Orci). So yeah. I'll still see it though.