Actually nothing to do with getting out of bed on the wrong side, Jaitea, and it certainly isn't abuse. You came in and accused him of using ROTJ insight to justify things as he watches ESB, when he did nothing of the sort. In fact, it's only the "eww incest" crowd that do that, as they're watching the ESB kiss with ROTJ knowledge in mind......and taking the "always known" line rather too literally, I might add.
Muddy was justifying the ROTJ line with ROTJ logic. Nowhere is it even implied he is justifying ESB scenes using ROTJ. We can of course refer back to prior events whilst discussing that scene from ROTJ. You pretty much have to when the discussion is revolving around other people making out Leia is an incestuous freak solely due to that "always known" line. Your reasoning just makes no sense, Jaitea.
When the kissing scene has been brought up by both of us, it's only been because we've had to point it out to other people making it an issue based on future knowledge! Exactly what you're accusing muddy of doing, in fact. All he and I have done is just say "no guys, Leia ain't freaky in ESB. She didn't literally KNOW", and as an aside, "there was never any passion in that kiss anyway. It was always kind of awkward, not at all like the one she has with Han later on. The kiss with Luke was clearly to annoy Han all along. This was obvious even back in 1980."
You get the idea.
I was done with this convo, and was just going to leave you blissfully unaware that you'd misunderstood...pretty much everything in this exchange. But then you had the nerve to try and turn it around with the sophistication of an 8 year old child saying "whatever".