darth_ender said:

Bingowings said:

Not everyone will react the same way or feel the same way either. That doesn't make them lesser people or potentially lesser parents.

Well, perhaps they don't react that way because they have no personality, in which case they are indeed lesser people. I have a few neighbors with no personality ;)

You probably need to get to know them better before you can make that sort of judgement though your savior suggests you reserve that effort for yourself.

Traumatised people can seem to be less responsive and some people who feel differently about the yet to be born are great parents to the born.

I hope the pregnancy situation resolves in a outcome favorable to all involved.