As someone who's closest friends identify as on the spectrum, and having a debatable place myself, I do take some offense to Ender's self-righteous claim that Warb belongs there. Or, rather, the way he presented it with no tact whatsoever. Web diagnoses on these sorts of things are pathetic at best - as I would think a nurse would know. Ender, you're using it as a way to discredit him in argumentative situations on the forum. Seriously, listing the signs here? As if to remind everyone else he's below you?
That's the sort of thing that, if you were genuinely curious, should have been addressed in private via PM or something.
I understand you were trying to be polite, but all you've managed to do is cherry coat a condescending appraisal of Warbler. I've a right to point out that this comes off as rude.