Bingowings said:

I don't think you are acting out of hate when you make these sorts of judgements

I am glad to read this because that has been my whole point. I have hardly actually touched on the topic of homosexuality in and of itself, but rather a defense of morally opposing it.

but you aren't saving our souls you are just adding to our Earthly discomfort.

And because of what I wrote above, I feel like I shouldn't be contributing to your discomfort. If we knew each other in person, I think you'd feel perfectly comfortable with me, as I would with you. As a non-hateful person, I believe we could be friends as long as we seldom discussed politics. You could introduce me to your better half (though from what I read, you are the better half), and I would be friends with him as well.

If anything anyone else does isn't for you don't do it. If you feel it's a barrier to you reaching your goals negotiate by all means but calling it wrong for everyone because you believe it's wrong for you isn't going to win anyone over to your perspective.

I may call it wrong, but not try to impose my will upon you. In the improbable event that we did meet, I probably wouldn't even bring it up. If it came up, it would simply be a matter we could discuss as my belief, and I again would do nothing to interfere or belittle or condemn your sexuality. I'd simply be a friend. That's what I consider you, even now, thousands of miles apart. I value my relationship with you. You are a friend.