lets talk heterosexuality. I don't want to sound like I'm bragging, but I once dated a female with an extremely similar libido and sexual response cycle. Otherwise I didn't fancy her too much. She was a bit dull, I hated her friends, and lets just say she wasn't on the Deans list. But we had simultaneous orgasms "like in the movies" I wrote in my journal at the time. At 21 that seemed profound enough to really try to stay with this girl. Reading my old journal got me thinking just how much movies affected my expectations about sex, well into adulthood.