I'd have to say the Spiderman 2.1 is my goto of the 3. Number 3 could have been far better of course. Number 1 is still good due to DaFoe's acting, he really does make a great comic book villain in to something more tangible which I like.
As for Amazing Spiderman ..... I'm not convinced just yet. I have the first 1 on Bluray (I was hesitant to buy it at all) and there isn't a big feeling of impending doom to it. It just kinda is. Now, if number 2 comes off better which I suspect it might, I may have a change of heart. All we can do is wait and see.