My mother is filing for divorce from my dad after 24 years. It's very upsetting. Not least because he didn't do anything to deserve it. He was always good with her. And not only is she leaving him, she refuses to even talk to him at all for any reason. Like he did something. He tried to send her money to pay for the phone bill (because at the time they were still on the same plan) and she got mad about that, but kept that money anyway, which is a load of horse shit. He didn't do anything wrong and would do anything for her and he is totally blindsided and depressed over it. I know people 'fall out of love' or whatever, but he is still in love with her and just leaving him wasn't enough for her, she has to completely shun him and act like he doesn't exist after being married for 24 years and treating her like a queen for all of it and as thanks for all he did for her she acts like he doesn't exist and makes him feel small and miserable and useless and just in general shitty as you would imagine if your wife all the sudden acts like you don't exist for no reason. She won't talk to her parents anymore either. Think she's going crazy, which is not just me venting, I really think so. She was close to her parents, now when they drive all the way here (from out of state mind you) she won't even speak with them. What a load of horse shit.