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twister111
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3-Jan-2014, 4:28 PM

RicOlie_2 said:

 That is only in a very few cases, and parents should work out most of their differences before marriage. Of course sometimes new problems come up, but the top 5 plus reasons
Rare or not it has happened. I'm not talking about the top 5 reasons so there's no reason for me to even comment on that.

RicOlie_2 said:

Additionally, it is only in rare cases that divorce does not have a negative impact on both children and parents.

Negative impacts on the parties choosing to undertake such an act are irrelevant to my point. Also yes I know sometimes one person wants to stay married while the other doesn't. Still irrelevant to my point. You were all like "This is very traumatic for their children and it is emotionally painful for them too. "
I'm simply saying that's not always the case.

RicOlie_2 said:

I believe couples should be allowed to live separately if there is a problem, but that they should remain married to only each other. Then if they have time to resolve their issues and cool off they can move together again.
That's okay if the problem is relatively minor or something but there are problems that don't get resolved just by living apart from each other. In such cases it's best just to go their separate ways.

Look I'm not saying divorce should be the go to for marital problems. If that's what you think I was saying. But there are times where it's best for the children to have a divorce. It's just not an absolute bad option.

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