TV's Frink said:

Mrebo said:

What motivated this thread?

I think people are born homosexual or heterosexual but can exhibit behavior of the either orientation for various psychological reasons. I wish there weren't all the campaigns and insistence upon a monolithic "community" (a feeling not limited to this topic btw). When it comes to sexuality I don't think it necessary (I'm sure there is a better word) to indulge every errant thought one may or may not have. People should respect others but they do have the right to avoid associations they find unhealthy. Though I agree with xhonzi that it is better to have tolerance of those with different views. I've always been naturally tolerant (Warbler would be laughing were he able [a joke, Mr. Warbler]) and I find it unfortunate when people shun others for not being sufficiently supportive of their worldview.

When people are told that what they are is "wrong" it is natural for them to campaign, join communities, speak out, shun those who oppose them, etc.

My only objection is to the "community" part. Just because one has a certain skin color or sexual preference doesn't mean one needs to declare allegiance to that separate community.

I like cheese on toast but no one seems to care so there's no need to create a community for it.

The "communities" are more than mere preference. Unless you're seeking to live the open-faced toasted cheese sandwich lifestyle. That description is probably insufficiently respectful of your preference....I apologize. We don't all need two slices of bread.

I offer limited comments to this topic because like bkev I prefer to be discreet. 100% discreet.