Thus far I've yet to encounter anything in the prime universe I'd disregard as non-canon. Abrams' Trek is just the weird dreams of a young Wesley Crusher as far as I'm concerned. =P Granted, I haven't read too much Trek. So stuff like Shatner's little journey with Kirk into the 24th century....I dunno haven't read it but that could be shakey. =P
One thing I can tell you with certainty though is that this book:
Is DEFINITELY a part of my personal Trek Canon. =P