Hey, it's me. said:

Now obviously certain things will cross those boundaries where things can be liked by everybody.

Indeed? How does that happen precisely? Who decides what has managed to fit the bill for crossing those boundaries? You make it sound as if it's just something that magically happens, that we have absolutely no control over it. Or, conversely, that such things have to be purposely decreed to be so, as in, "We allow that this is just for boys, this is just for girls, but THIS can be for everybody." Or that there are just some things that are impossible to cross those boundaries? If so, why are they impossible? Can they be possible? Or do you just accept that your views happen to line up with the majority (or is it the other way around), and that's really all that matters? Society has made its judgment and no other outcomes are possible?