Aaaand the above post could have been written by me because I agree with every single word of it, and it drives me crazy on a regular basis. And I hope one day I manage to find a woman who is strong and independent enough that she doesn't feel compelled to shave her legs or wear makeup (especially makeup... the idea that a woman must cover up her own face to be attractive is so depressing to me, and yet it's almost never brought up when discussing the problem of women's low self image). Like CP3S, I find such individualism and refusal to follow silly conventions very sexy.