I think it is you and others here that don't get it. You have me coming off vastly different from how I intend it. You act as if I was yelling that disapproval and pointing a finger in his face while I did it, and nothing could be further from the truth. I think it would be so much clearly if you could hear me say it rather than just read it.
As for the unemployment thing, perhaps I would feel a little judged(I think some of it would depend on how the person said it to me), but it doesn't shock me that someone would feel that way and I don't think I'd feel scolded. Btw for the overwhelming majority of my unemployment, I have not taken unemployment checks.
In the end, I have the right to my religious beliefs. I have right to decide for myself what I will and will not approve of. I don't think not approving of homosexuality, makes me the same as those sickos that protest funerals.