Warbler said:

When I say I don't approve, I in no intend it to come across as a scolding. I am not really how simply saying I don't approve of X, comes across as scolding someone for X. I have never scolded someone for being a homosexual, and nor would I.

You don't seem to get it, and it is probably time to drop this little branch of the discussion, but I will try one last thing. I know you were unemployed a while back, not sure if you still are, but let's suppose your unemployment was brought up and someone said, "I don't approve of people who don't work and have to be supported by my tax dollars."

Would you not feel a little scolded and judged?

At this point you'd probably feel a little defensive, I'd love to have a job and not have to take unemployment. I didn't ask to be unemployed and I am actively looking for work, it just isn't there!

Right? Or would you really be totally okay with someone saying that to you and not feel even slightly judged or like you were being scolded?