_ender, my Hitler comment was in response to this:

mrbenja0618 said:

But as far as the rest I had to ask myself the question: Is it possible that God knows something I don't know? Is it possible he allowed this person and that person to be killed because he knew something about the person that we didn't know? Maybe they would have done terrible things, maybe not. Maybe he knew that person would never turn back to Him. Maybe it's something none of us can even fathom. (Probably so.)

I don't believe that God allowed Hitler to live, nor do I believe that God allowed everyone he killed to die. I believe that it's something that happened because Hitler was a monster, end of story.

The idea that "everything happens for a reason" is a load of bull in my mind. I don't believe there is any reason we lost our first child, other than random stupid crappy chance.