sean wookie said:
Well, I mean she has a job, an education, a car. I have none of these.
But don't you see man, you have already lost if you are thinking this way. It's all attitude! So she has a job, education, car, etc. That's a great thing but it doesn't make her an intrinsically better person or you a worse person.
You may be overflowing with values and/or traits that she doesn't have any of or has very little of. In fact, that is probably the case.