Bingowings said:

You have said it before and not just to me.

If you are happy to say it then that's fine but why ask?

happy to say it? when I say something like that, it is because someone or something has totally pissed me off. I am not happy to say it. And I didn't specifically ask about about that comment.

I still believe when I said it do you, you deserved it(the comment, not death). You butted you way into a very sensitive situation you didn't know every thing about and decided to lecture me and wouldn't stop. As for other incidents of saying 'foad', I can't remember exactly who else I said it to. Perhaps ABC? well, he deserved it too. If you wish to bring up a specific incident or multiple incidents, I'd be will to address them.