walkingdork said:
Warbler said:
walkingdork said:
You guys crack me up.
So much time is spent worrying about other members because they are annoying, rude, or just plain assholes. Who cares?
the guy they are annoying, being rude to, and/or being an asshole to.
It's the internet, deal with it or move on.
some of us just can't deal with it or more on as well as others. Sometimes, I think I shouldn't have to because the other person just shouldn't be annoying, rude, or an asshole.
walkingdork said:
walkingdork said:
I don't understand the fascination with banning people and guessing who is who's sock.
walkingdork said:
Here's a fun little fact about the correlation between banning people and socks....If you don't ban people you have less socks.
maybe true, but some people still deserve to get banned. Trolls can ruin the forum community for some people.
That's when you should use the ignore feature. Why should people have a community not only ruined but taken away from them by being banned just because someone doesn't is unhappy about their behavior?
it is not a matter of being unhappy with their behavior, it is a matter of their behavior being bad. Of course, the mods and the admins, get to decide when the behavior is bad enough to merit banning.
walkingdork said:
walkingdork said:
Sure maybe a real prick might have two socks: one for being serious and another for being a troll but who cares? How does that concern anyone here?
Why shouldn't I be concerned about someone being rude and annoying to me? Why shouldn't I be concerned about someone disrespecting me or other forum members? Why shouldn't I been concerned about trolls that cause problems for the forum community?
because you believe in free speech?
I've been told by many, many, people that yfree speech does not apply to forums. Also is one thing to be free to give whatever opinion you have, it is another to be free to call people names and be annoying/troll/and say their opinion in an offensive way.
walkingdork said:
because you believe people should be able to speak their mind even if their opinion is ridiculous or offensive?
I think their ought to be a limit to what people can say on a forum, or do you think people ought to be able to say racist things on this forum?
walkingdork said:
It seems silly that you believe those things for our country, just not the places where you hang out.
I believe that the government should not limit free speech. Jay, on his own forum is another matter. The person that owns the forum has the perfect right to limit speech. Now, people of course have every right to leave the forum if they don't like how the forum owner decides things.
walkingdork said:
And if a troll is doing all that with a sock account, what is wrong with wanting to find his real account and holding him responsible for the things he did under the sock account? Why shouldn't I care about the forum community, when I've been a part of it for almost 10 years(it will be 10 years in May 2013)?
Myspleen has been around since 2013 (current records only go back as far as 2004) and we dealt with trolls, racists, and extremely offensive/hateful people. Our community is doing just fine.
I get complaints from time to time with demands to ban people and I tell to them to suck it up or ignore them.
I have to say it, you attitude on subject sucks.
walkingdork said:
walkingdork said:
Ignoring people is also such a strange idea to me. If you see someone's post and you aren't interested in reading the contents, skip it.
I have no authority in the forum. It is Jay's forum and only he can decide who is and who is not to be banned. Sometimes, people that I think should be banned, won't be. Using the ignore the button is sometimes the only other option. Maybe if the person who is annoying you, knows that you are not reading his posts, he'll stop posting the things that annoy you.
Fair enough. I guess I just have thick skin.
You say people have called for you to be banned?
when did I say that? I suppose it has happened.
walkingdork said:
what if Jay decided to appease them and ban you.
then I guess I'd be banned. Jay is the ultimate decider of those things on his forum.
walkingdork said:
Does that seem fair?
it would depend on what I did that caused me to be banned.
walkingdork said:
Some one can't handle you and so you should be removed??
Maybe I shouldn't be acting in such a way that someone needs to handle me.