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darth_ender said:

 


Don't forget my degree in psychology. I'm well aware of the criteria. There is a massive difference between paranoid personality disorder (an Axis II disorder, as evidenced by the "personality disorder" bit) vs., say, Schizophrenia, Paranoid Type. One is a mental illness. One is not. I'm not trying to come off as snooty, but merely stating that I'm not entirely ignorant on the topic. But in reality, we have so little to go on, how could I genuinely make such a judgment? He could be very different in reality compared to his Internet activities. Again, it's all just silly fun to me. I've gotten much better at skipping stuff that offends me (in part thanks to you Walkingdork--not that you offend me all the time, but I learned that I don't have to take offense all the time in part from our past arguments, and see how well we get along now :)

Nobody stress out about my fascination with him. Perhaps I have Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder (a distint disorder from Obsessive Compulsive Disorder). ;)

 

If it's BS in Psych then I'm not phased (especially if its not from a state college or a prestigious private college).

But in reality, we have so little to go on, how could I genuinely make such a judgment?

Glad to hear we agree on this ^ so I'll drop the subject.

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It's a BA in psychology I'm afraid, and it's from the University of Arizona, a state university.  On top of that, I have worked in the field for a few years now.  I'm not the world's greatest pro on all things psychology, and a Bachelor's is not terribly impressive, but it's not like I'm an ignorant nincompoop on the topic.  I'm not trying to impress; merely showing that I do know what I'm talking about on some level.  But yes, since we agree, I'm happy to drop it too :)

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Warbler said:

walkingdork said:

You guys crack me up.

So much time is spent worrying about other members because they are annoying, rude, or just plain assholes. Who cares?

the guy they are annoying, being rude to, and/or being an asshole to. 

It's the internet, deal with it or move on.

walkingdork said:

I don't understand the fascination with banning people and guessing who is who's sock.

 

walkingdork said:

Here's a fun little fact about the correlation between banning people and socks....If you don't ban people you have less socks.

maybe true, but some people still deserve to get banned.   Trolls can ruin the forum community for some people. 

That's when you should use the ignore feature. Why should people have a community not only ruined but taken away from them by being banned just because someone doesn't is unhappy about their behavior?

walkingdork said:

Sure maybe a real prick might have two socks: one for being serious and another for being a troll but who cares? How does that concern anyone here?

Why shouldn't I be concerned about someone being rude and annoying to me?   Why shouldn't I be concerned about someone disrespecting me or other forum members?   Why shouldn't I been concerned about trolls that cause problems for the forum community? 

because you believe in free speech? because you believe people should be able to speak their mind even if their opinion is ridiculous or offensive? It seems silly that you believe those things for our country, just not the places where you hang out.

And if a troll is doing all that with a sock account, what is wrong with wanting to find his real account and holding him responsible for the things he did under the sock account?    Why shouldn't I care about the forum community, when I've been a part of it for almost 10 years(it will be 10 years in May 2013)?

Myspleen has been around since 2013 (current records only go back as far as 2004) and we dealt with trolls, racists, and extremely offensive/hateful people. Our community is doing just fine.

I get complaints from time to time with demands to ban people and I tell to them to suck it up or ignore them.

walkingdork said:

Ignoring people is also such a strange idea to me. If you see someone's post and you aren't interested in reading the contents, skip it.

I have no authority in the forum.  It is Jay's forum and only he can decide who is and who is not to be banned.  Sometimes, people that I think should be banned, won't be.   Using the ignore the button is sometimes the only other option.    Maybe if the person who is annoying you, knows that you are not reading his posts,  he'll stop posting the things that annoy you.

Fair enough. I guess I just have thick skin.

You say people have called for you to be banned? what if Jay decided to appease them and ban you. Does that seem fair? Some one can't handle you and so you should be removed??

walkingdork said:

However I'm all in favor of people with thin skin or short tempers to ignore people instead of calling for someone to be banned.

well, I do admit the having thin skin and a bad temper problem.   It is something that I have and continue to work on.  

walkingdork said:

Obv troll is obv, just ignore them. :D

When I was growing up and was the victim of bullying,  I was told over and over again to ignore them.    It is is much, much easier to say ignore them than it is to actually ignore them.

I'm actually going to discuss the bullying issue in the politics thread. You're welcome Tyrphanax;)

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Warbler said:

walkingdork said: who has cancer and who doesn't.

did you really need to bring the cancer thing up?  I don't think it is paranoid to wonder whether or not a person, that you tried to help by creating a thread to raise money, actually has the cancer they claimed to have(especially when that person's best friend comes on the forum and says that he is lying).   

You believe in God right? So donate (or don't) and let God sort it out.

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darth_ender said:

It's a BA in psychology I'm afraid, and it's from the University of Arizona, a state university.  On top of that, I have worked in the field for a few years now.  I'm not the world's greatest pro on all things psychology, and a Bachelor's is not terribly impressive, but it's not like I'm an ignorant nincompoop on the topic.  I'm not trying to impress; merely showing that I do know what I'm talking about on some level.  But yes, since we agree, I'm happy to drop it too :)

BA? Maybe if it was a BS you woulda had some science in your life and come to the dark side (HAIL SAGAN!) :P

Yeah, sorry for shitting on your education. We just have so many psych/sociology students come to the halfway house I work at who don't know shit. The students from the two surrounding private schools always have higher GPAs but have the least amount of knowledge.

Most people learn more about mental illness in the first weeks of working at the halfway house than they did during their 4 years of college. Knowing the symptoms means jack until you work hands on with them.

What do you do again? Have we talked about this before?

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I've mentioned it a few times.  I've case managed for four different agencies and for various populations, the first being the most interesting.  I managed the cases of adults with developmental disabilities and were diagnosed as seriously mentally ill (SMI, meaning their GAF is 50 or below), as well as with children mostly 5 through 18.  Now I work as a counselor with the 0-5 population and their parents, some of whom are very crazy!

I don't take too much offense anymore at your wording.  And I consider myself very scientifically-minded, as well as faith-minded.  I think you see that reading my posts.  And I have a lot of respect for Carl Sagan.  

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Do you guys have any idea what thread you are in?

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walkingdork said:

Warbler said:

walkingdork said:

You guys crack me up.

So much time is spent worrying about other members because they are annoying, rude, or just plain assholes. Who cares?

the guy they are annoying, being rude to, and/or being an asshole to. 

It's the internet, deal with it or move on.

some of us just can't deal with it or more on as well as others.   Sometimes, I think I shouldn't have to because the other person just shouldn't be annoying, rude, or an asshole.  

walkingdork said:

 

walkingdork said:

I don't understand the fascination with banning people and guessing who is who's sock.

 

walkingdork said:

Here's a fun little fact about the correlation between banning people and socks....If you don't ban people you have less socks.

maybe true, but some people still deserve to get banned.   Trolls can ruin the forum community for some people. 

That's when you should use the ignore feature. Why should people have a community not only ruined but taken away from them by being banned just because someone doesn't is unhappy about their behavior?

it is not a matter of being unhappy with their behavior, it is a matter of their behavior being bad.    Of course, the mods and the admins, get to decide when the behavior is bad enough to merit banning.   

walkingdork said:

walkingdork said:

Sure maybe a real prick might have two socks: one for being serious and another for being a troll but who cares? How does that concern anyone here?

Why shouldn't I be concerned about someone being rude and annoying to me?   Why shouldn't I be concerned about someone disrespecting me or other forum members?   Why shouldn't I been concerned about trolls that cause problems for the forum community? 

because you believe in free speech?

I've been told by many, many, people that yfree speech does not apply to forums.   Also is one thing to be free to give whatever opinion you have, it is another to be free to call people names and be annoying/troll/and say their opinion in an offensive way. 

walkingdork said:

because you believe people should be able to speak their mind even if their opinion is ridiculous or offensive?

I think their ought to be a limit to what people can say on a forum, or do you think people ought to be able to say racist things on this forum? 

walkingdork said:

It seems silly that you believe those things for our country, just not the places where you hang out.

I believe that the government should not limit free speech.  Jay, on his own forum is another matter.   The person that owns the forum has the perfect right to limit speech.  Now, people of course have every right to leave the forum if they don't like how the forum owner decides things.  

walkingdork said:

 

And if a troll is doing all that with a sock account, what is wrong with wanting to find his real account and holding him responsible for the things he did under the sock account?    Why shouldn't I care about the forum community, when I've been a part of it for almost 10 years(it will be 10 years in May 2013)?

Myspleen has been around since 2013 (current records only go back as far as 2004) and we dealt with trolls, racists, and extremely offensive/hateful people. Our community is doing just fine.

I get complaints from time to time with demands to ban people and I tell to them to suck it up or ignore them.

I have to say it, you attitude on subject sucks.

walkingdork said:

walkingdork said:

Ignoring people is also such a strange idea to me. If you see someone's post and you aren't interested in reading the contents, skip it.

I have no authority in the forum.  It is Jay's forum and only he can decide who is and who is not to be banned.  Sometimes, people that I think should be banned, won't be.   Using the ignore the button is sometimes the only other option.    Maybe if the person who is annoying you, knows that you are not reading his posts,  he'll stop posting the things that annoy you.

Fair enough. I guess I just have thick skin.

You say people have called for you to be banned?

when did I say that?   I suppose it has happened.  

 

walkingdork said:

what if Jay decided to appease them and ban you.

then I guess I'd be banned.   Jay is the ultimate decider of those things on his forum. 

walkingdork said:

 

Does that seem fair?

it would depend on what I did that caused me to be banned. 

 

walkingdork said:

Some one can't handle you and so you should be removed??

Maybe I shouldn't be acting in such a way that someone needs to handle me. 

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GET OUT OF THIS THREAD WITH THAT CRAZY QUOTING NONSENSE

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But I hate reading crazy quoting nonsense in my own threads.  If you guys don't knock it off, as God as my witness, I will TURN THIS THREAD AROUND!!!

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Warbler said:

walkingdork said:

because you believe people should be able to speak their mind even if their opinion is ridiculous or offensive?

I think their ought to be a limit to what people can say on a forum, or do you think people ought to be able to say racist things on this forum? 

If that's someone's opinion and it's on topic, then yeah.

  

walkingdork said:

 

And if a troll is doing all that with a sock account, what is wrong with wanting to find his real account and holding him responsible for the things he did under the sock account?    Why shouldn't I care about the forum community, when I've been a part of it for almost 10 years(it will be 10 years in May 2013)?

Myspleen has been around since 2013 (current records only go back as far as 2004) and we dealt with trolls, racists, and extremely offensive/hateful people. Our community is doing just fine.

I get complaints from time to time with demands to ban people and I tell to them to suck it up or ignore them.

I have to say it, you attitude on subject sucks.

I believe in free speech. So unless someone is being physically threatened people can speak their minds on Myspleen. It has been that way there well before I was an admin.

walkingdork said:

walkingdork said:

Ignoring people is also such a strange idea to me. If you see someone's post and you aren't interested in reading the contents, skip it.

I have no authority in the forum.  It is Jay's forum and only he can decide who is and who is not to be banned.  Sometimes, people that I think should be banned, won't be.   Using the ignore the button is sometimes the only other option.    Maybe if the person who is annoying you, knows that you are not reading his posts,  he'll stop posting the things that annoy you.

Fair enough. I guess I just have thick skin.

You say people have called for you to be banned?

when did I say that?   I suppose it has happened.  

bolded.

 

walkingdork said:

Some one can't handle you and so you should be removed??

Maybe I shouldn't be acting in such a way that someone needs to handle me. 

Some people don't appreciate my humor or my being blunt from time to time. Ender used to be offended by my posts. Right now Frink is probably mad at my continuing this conversation on his thread. Should I be banned?

If you want a Myspleen invite, just PM me and ask.

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walkingdork said:

Warbler said:

walkingdork said:

because you believe people should be able to speak their mind even if their opinion is ridiculous or offensive?

I think their ought to be a limit to what people can say on a forum, or do you think people ought to be able to say racist things on this forum? 

If that's someone's opinion and it's on topic, then yeah.

  

walkingdork said:

 

And if a troll is doing all that with a sock account, what is wrong with wanting to find his real account and holding him responsible for the things he did under the sock account?    Why shouldn't I care about the forum community, when I've been a part of it for almost 10 years(it will be 10 years in May 2013)?

Myspleen has been around since 2013 (current records only go back as far as 2004) and we dealt with trolls, racists, and extremely offensive/hateful people. Our community is doing just fine.

I get complaints from time to time with demands to ban people and I tell to them to suck it up or ignore them.

I have to say it, you attitude on subject sucks.

I believe in free speech. So unless someone is being physically threatened people can speak their minds on Myspleen. It has been that way there well before I was an admin.

walkingdork said:

walkingdork said:

Ignoring people is also such a strange idea to me. If you see someone's post and you aren't interested in reading the contents, skip it.

I have no authority in the forum.  It is Jay's forum and only he can decide who is and who is not to be banned.  Sometimes, people that I think should be banned, won't be.   Using the ignore the button is sometimes the only other option.    Maybe if the person who is annoying you, knows that you are not reading his posts,  he'll stop posting the things that annoy you.

Fair enough. I guess I just have thick skin.

You say people have called for you to be banned?

when did I say that?   I suppose it has happened.  

bolded.

 

walkingdork said:

Some one can't handle you and so you should be removed??

Maybe I shouldn't be acting in such a way that someone needs to handle me. 

Some people don't appreciate my humor or my being blunt from time to time. Ender used to be offended by my posts. Right now Frink is probably mad at my continuing this conversation on his thread. Should I be banned?

 

This thread is now about DOGS WEARING HATS

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TV's Frink said:


But I hate reading crazy quoting nonsense in my own threads.  If you guys don't knock it off, as God as my witness, I will TURN THIS THREAD AROUND!!!


http://youtu.be/BmlwCkhcIfo
october turned the leaves to copper and gold
set my world on fire, left me in the cold

if i were a master of alchemy
i'd change everything
i'd make all the broken things beautiful
especially the way we left it

if only we could go back, baby we could change it
fix a single mistake, maybe that would save it
turn the ship around, it's headed for the falls
but it's all been said and done
said and done

take a telescope and focus on the stars
a million light years and fading, that's how far you are

if i had invented a time machine
i'd change everything
i'd make all the broken things beautiful
especially the way we left it

if only we could go back, baby we could change it
fix a single mistake, maybe that would save it
turn the ship around, it's headed for the falls
but it's all been said and done
said and done

there's a time for one last hope
and there's a time for letting go

if only we could go back, baby we could change it
fix a single mistake, maybe that would save it
turn the ship around, it's headed for the falls
but it's all been said and done

i know we can't go back, baby we can't change it
every single mistake, they were all worth making
i'd do it all again for the high before the fall
when it's all said and done

TV's Frink - Attempted Alchemist

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Jesus Christ this better not become another threat I can't enter.

Keep Circulating the Tapes.

END OF LINE

(It hasn’t happened yet)

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walkingdork said:

Warbler said:

walkingdork said: who has cancer and who doesn't.

did you really need to bring the cancer thing up?  I don't think it is paranoid to wonder whether or not a person, that you tried to help by creating a thread to raise money, actually has the cancer they claimed to have(especially when that person's best friend comes on the forum and says that he is lying).   

You believe in God right? So donate (or don't) and let God sort it out.

now you've gotten me angry.  What does my belief in God has nothing to do with this.   This is about someone lying to get money, and using me to do it.     

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Warbler said:

walkingdork said:

Warbler said:

walkingdork said: who has cancer and who doesn't.

did you really need to bring the cancer thing up?  I don't think it is paranoid to wonder whether or not a person, that you tried to help by creating a thread to raise money, actually has the cancer they claimed to have(especially when that person's best friend comes on the forum and says that he is lying).   

You believe in God right? So donate (or don't) and let God sort it out.

now you've gotten me angry.  What does my belief in God has nothing to do with this.   This is about someone lying to get money, and using me to do it.     

Why are you angry? I'm just saying if there is a God I'm pretty sure lying about cancer for money is a straight trip to hell. So losing a little cash would be bad, but a liar of that magnitude would not go unpunished, right?

I would have taken someone in that situation at their word and if they were lying I would realize that that person is a horrible person and is really worse off than me losing a little bit of cash. Know what I mean?

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walkingdork said:

Warbler said:

walkingdork said:

because you believe people should be able to speak their mind even if their opinion is ridiculous or offensive?

I think their ought to be a limit to what people can say on a forum, or do you think people ought to be able to say racist things on this forum? 

If that's someone's opinion and it's on topic, then yeah.

I think it is clear that not everyone agrees that people should be allowed to say racist stuff on a forum.  But, in the end, it is up to the mods and admins to decide.

walkingdork said:

  

walkingdork said:

 

And if a troll is doing all that with a sock account, what is wrong with wanting to find his real account and holding him responsible for the things he did under the sock account?    Why shouldn't I care about the forum community, when I've been a part of it for almost 10 years(it will be 10 years in May 2013)?

Myspleen has been around since 2013 (current records only go back as far as 2004) and we dealt with trolls, racists, and extremely offensive/hateful people. Our community is doing just fine.

I get complaints from time to time with demands to ban people and I tell to them to suck it up or ignore them.

I have to say it, you attitude on subject sucks.

I believe in free speech. So unless someone is being physically threatened people can speak their minds on Myspleen. It has been that way there well before I was an admin.

not every forum has to follow the rules of Myspleen.  Also just because Myspleen does something,  that doesn't mean it was the right thing to do.   In any case, neither you or I are an admin on this forum.  Jay is the one and only admin here. 

walkingdork said:

walkingdork said:

walkingdork said:

Ignoring people is also such a strange idea to me. If you see someone's post and you aren't interested in reading the contents, skip it.

I have no authority in the forum.  It is Jay's forum and only he can decide who is and who is not to be banned.  Sometimes, people that I think should be banned, won't be.   Using the ignore the button is sometimes the only other option.    Maybe if the person who is annoying you, knows that you are not reading his posts,  he'll stop posting the things that annoy you.

Fair enough. I guess I just have thick skin.

You say people have called for you to be banned?

when did I say that?   I suppose it has happened.  

bolded.

huh?  the bolded just says that sometimes people that I think should be banned, won't be banned.    It doesn't say that people have called for me to be banned. 

walkingdork said:

 

walkingdork said:

Some one can't handle you and so you should be removed??

Maybe I shouldn't be acting in such a way that someone needs to handle me. 

Some people don't appreciate my humor or my being blunt from time to time. Ender used to be offended by my posts. Right now Frink is probably mad at my continuing this conversation on his thread. Should I be banned?

Only Jay and his mods decide who is and who is not to be banned here.  Do I think you should be banned?  No,  but after that crack about the cancer thing and my belief in God, I am considering putting you on ignore.   And I wouldn't call you blunt, I'd you insensitive and rude.