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Warbler said:

CP3S said:

Warbler said:

so 6 million jews were not murdered in Germany?   I am pretty sure the Holocaust was legal in Germany at the time.   Just because murder is legal, doesn't mean it isn't murder.  

Well, technically no, I suppose. "Executed" among other words, would be more accurate.

that is just crazy and offensive.   They were MURDERED.     I don't know how you can argue that murder is only murder, when it is against the law.

Offensive? Seriously? How is that offensive? I can argue that because that is how my dictionary (and yours, I reassure you) defines it. It doesn't make what was done to the Jews any less horrific, nor am I trying to make any claim that it is.

 

I suppose I do,  but just what part of your post were you expecting me to "fix"? 

Did you even read my post? I'm just going to quote the whole section below:

What does it hurt you, living in New Jersey, if some woman in California decides to terminate her pregnancy? The answer: not at all whatsoever. You are entirely unaffected, 100%.

I imagine you'll probably compare it to murder again, saying something along the lines of, "What does it hurt you, living in wherever you live, if a woman in California is raped and murdered by some thug? The answer: not at all whatsoever. You are entirely unaffected, 100%." Then you'd probably write something like "Fixed!" under it.

Then I found it really funny that Ender went and did just that:

If someone were to kill you, living in Tennessee (is that right?), what would it affect me, living in AZ?  I'd wonder why you never came around the site, but I wouldn't shed a single tear for your passing.  I wouldn't even know.

 

 

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Allowing things like murder and rape to go without punishment or consequences would create anarchy.

it would also be morally wrong and would allow people to violate peoples' right to live and not be raped

Yeah, pretty much what I was saying.

I don't think it was.   You made it sound like we should only care about these things, rape and murder, when it effects us.  

Nope. I had a whole spiel about society not being able to function like that and that we need laws that discourage behavior such as rape and murder.

 

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Again, what does some aborted fetus that you never even knew existed do to harm you or society or anyone else in this country other than the two people who conceived it? Again, nada. All those abortion that took place this very day, this week, and the past month, they had nothing to do with you and they didn't harm you. They don't effect your life in anyway.

they don't,  but I care anyway.   I care about human life.  I care about the right of a human to live.    Just like I care about all the death happening over in the middle east and other places.   I can't believe you'd actually try to argue that I shouldn't care about human life being snuffed out, as long as it doesn't effect me.   

I'm not arguing that at all.

sure sounded like it.

I never made any kind of argument that said you shouldn't care about people dying if it doesn't effect you. Nothing even close to it.

 

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But when it comes to abortion, something deemed legal and socially acceptable by the supreme court and the powers that be, I think it is silly to get your panties all tangled up simply because your neighbors are doing something you personally find morally wrong.

so it is silly to "get your panties all tangled up", when you see people committing murder, simply because the murder is deemed legal and socially acceptable?

I mentioned the supreme court, because you seem to hold them in very high regard And they are Federal government, which is something else you also seem to hold in incredibly high regard.

And murder is deemed illegal and socially unacceptable.

 

So all the abolitionists were silly to be so upset about slavery, because slavery was deemed legal and socially acceptable?

That has zero relation to this topic. Though I always have found it amusing that no matter what we are discussing, racism and/or slavery inevitable make their way into your side of the conversation.

 

Throughout history,  there are many instances of horrible, evil things done, that at the time were deemed legal and socially acceptable.   Yet, I don't think was silly to think that those things were evil and that they should be stopped.  

I absolutely agree.

 

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This moralistic thinking is also what leads to racism and homophobia. According to the Bible homosexuality is wrong, right? So would you be quite bothered if your male next door neighbor spent his weekend lovingly sodomizing another dude? I don't think you would, because you feel gay people should be treated the same as anyone else and what they do as consenting adults in their lives doesn't affect us.

it is more than just that their lives don;t affect us, allowing them to live there lives the way they want, doesn't violate anyone's rights.   I can not say the same for abortion, I believe it violates the right to life of the unborn child.  

I don't feel like a growing cluster of cells or a non viable fetus has the rights a person has, nor do I think it's rights should be elevated above the mother's (whose body it is occupying and dependent on) right to chose not to have it.

 

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The bottom line is, it isn't your body that has this parasitic early stage of human life growing inside of you. In fact, it is something you will never have to experience, or fear the potential of experiencing when you are not ready for it. It doesn't affect you, and it is only your personal morals (thus not shared by everyone, not even everyone in your own country) that are condemning it.

true, it doesn't affect me, but it does affect the unborn child.   Forcing black people to sit in the back of the bus would not affect me, but I am against that too.  I see nothing wrong with fighting for the rights of others, in the case, it is the rights of the unborn child that I fight for.

And at the same time against the rights of the mother (whose lives are severely affected). Damned if you do, damned if you don't, eh.

 

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Have you forgotten that the right to live was called an inalienable right by the Declaration of Independence?    According to that document, the right to live comes not from any law, but from nature. 

Show me where that applies to potential people?

1. show me where it doesn't

2. is the unborn child just a potential person?  Just exactly when does it become a person?  

Not when it is just a shapeless mass growing inside somebody elses body.

 

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Should we extend it to sperm cells, as potential potentials?

no, because sperm cell alone is not a human life,  human life is the combination of the sperm and the egg cell. 

So once these two come into contact, sperm and ovum, we now have a human life that should be protected inalienably as per the Declaration of Independence?

 

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I think you are kind of stretching by claiming the Declaration of Independence's "unalienable right to life" pertains to abortion.

am I?   I am pretty sure that many of the founding fathers would be pro-life.

Maybe. But you also think many of them would be anti-gun. (lol, the guys that started a violent rebellion against their ruing government because they were tired of paying taxes.)

Who can really say how they would have felt about it.

 

As for the situation of the mother's life being in danger, please remember that the mother also has the inalienable right to life. 

So then whose right do we alienate? What makes her right less alienable than her unborn child's? If they are both inalienable, then we have an issue. There is the iceberg tip of the before mentioned sticky

 

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Now we are back to a convenience thing (and I probably just reoffended Frink),

yeah, why'd you do that?

What? Should I not mention things if people find them offensive? I find obsession with sports offensive, could we please not ever mention them again?

I don't want to offend him by it, but I feel it is very clearly true. Religious people will suddenly grant that it is okay to abort a baby in the instance of rape, even though they'll adamantly argue it is murder in other instances, simply because it would be inconvenient to say that you're murdering the baby when the pregnancy was caused by rape. Also, religious authorities have traditionally really enjoyed the fact that the sin of sex comes with undesirable consequences, and have a history of strongly condemning interventions that allow people to commit the act with having to risk suffering the consequences.

Condoms greatly reduce the risk of STIs and pregnancy, so they are bad. Medical interventions can cleanly remove an accidental conception. Suddenly the consequences of sex are much more minimal, so those things must be labeled as bad and made as hard or as difficult to get as possible.

 

I'm not forcing any morality on anyone. If you don't feel right about abortion, then I strongly encourage you not to get an abortion.

and if you don't feeling right about 6 million Jews being murdered,  don't murder 6 million Jews?

Why does everything go back to Jew and black people?

 

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The unborn child, I suppose has to be at the mercy of those who conceived him.

sometimes, parents can be very uncaring.   I think we owe the unborn, better than that.  

Why do we owe them anything?

 

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You think abortion is wrong, and therefore you don't want anybody to be able to do it...

yes,  just like I don't want anyone to murder 6 million jews, even if it is legal in the country where it would happen.  

I truly hope you see that there is a very massive difference between those two things you are comparing.

of course they are different.   But both are still murder in my mind.

Soooo, does that make Obama, a strongly pro-choice President, a bit like Adolf Hitler?

 

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snuffing that out should not be something taken lightly.

yet it is, every day. 

Do you think that many people are so flippant about it?

yes, unfortunately.   Remember you are talking about people who had unprotected sex, at a time in their life when they did not want a child.   They already made one irresponsible decision, is it so much a stretch that they'd make another?  

How do you know they had unprotected sex? I've had condoms break on me before. I'm sure everyone that uses them has had that happen at least once. Hormone birth control is really reliable, but it still have a failure rate.

I suppose I could flip your argument and say that since they are so irresponsible, they really have no business having and raising kids?

 

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Of course, it is hard for people to want to listen when they see people trying to take their rights away.

just as it is hard for people to sit by do nothing while they see people committing murder, legal as it may be.   

*Sigh*

Murder is NOT legal. And abortion isn't murder.

 

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 The Westboro Baptists for example, a lot of people fundamentally agree with their anti-war stance, but still feel like puking every time they hear about what these idiots do to make their points.

I didn't think they had an anti-war stance as much as they had an anti-gay stance.  

Wait, am I mixing up my asshole baptist groups? Who are the ones who protest at the funerals of fallen soldiers? I thought that was Westboro.

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CP3S said:

TV's Frink said:

I'm not a rapist, and my wife was not in danger.  But if you think we acted out of convenience, you can kindly fuck off.

 

Okay, so I get that you have a personal event that happened in your life relating to this subject and that it was pretty hard on you and your wife. That sucks. I'm really sorry that happened to you. I'm not a parent, nor have ever been close to being one, and have no idea how difficult that must have been.

But you're just getting pissed off and getting caught up on words. I don't even think you're reading all of my posts or have any clue what I mean when I say "matter of convenience". It doesn't even relate to the heartbreaking situation you and your wife were faced with (I recall you went into vague detail about it once on the forum), yours was a very sad situation and not the sort of thing that is being discussed here at all.

1) I said "if"
2) Your posts are really long

 

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Well, I don't think you acted out of convenience.

 

It is kind of amusing that the only two liberals that frequent this thread regularly are both against me on what is probably one of the most liberal stances I take.

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I don't understand what Americans mean when they refer to Liberals, it appears to mean something very different elsewhere in the world.

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Yes it is very different here.

You should wiki American liberalism and American conservatism sometime when you are feeling bored.

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I've tried that, not when I'm bored, I'm rarely that.

I think it's a bit like explaining the off side rule to people who don't follow what you call soccer.

From here you have the Blue Cons and the Red Cons and bizarrely the reds are a bit more right than the blues.

That parallels what the new UK model of Two Thatcherite parties and the Liberals who never win and leach off whoever is in power.

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murder is murder whether it is legal or not.   If I was in that state, where it is legal to kill Mormons,  and just walk up and shoot a Mormon in the head and he dies,  you are telling me I have not committed murder?  I'll respond to the rest CP3S's post, later.  

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Murder is the act of illegally killing someone so if it's legal it's not illegal, so it's not murder.

Words can be a pain sometimes.

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A couple of semantic differences:

According to CP3S and reportedly the dictionary definition (too lazy to look it up, but I believe him), murder is killing someone illegally.

According to Warbler, murder is killing someone innocent.

My personal definition would be knowingly and with malintent killing someone innocent.  It doesn't fit the dictionary defintion, but it fits my moral sensibilities.

And while it's clear I disagree with you, CP3S, on a number of issues in this topic, I will let Warbler address your comments directed at him.  As for jerk churches, the Westboro Baptist Church protest a number of things, such as gays, war, various religions (i.e. Catholicism, Islam, Judaism, and often protest at the funerals of gays and military personnel.  As a Mormon, I feel somewhat left out ;)  We haven't gotten a whole lot of attention from them, it seems.  So indeed, these are the jerks you were referring to.

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Well if you are going to change the definition of words...

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darth_ender said:

A couple of semantic differences:

According to CP3S and reportedly the dictionary definition (too lazy to look it up, but I believe him), murder is killing someone illegally.

According to Warbler, murder is killing someone innocent.

My personal definition would be knowingly and with malintent killing someone innocent.  It doesn't fit the dictionary defintion, but it fits my moral sensibilities.

Let's just look it up:

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/murder
1.
Law . the killing of another human being under conditions specifically covered in law. In the U.S., special statutory definitions include murder committed with malice aforethought, characterized by deliberation or premeditation or occurring during the commission of another serious crime, as robbery or arson (first-degree murder), and murder by intent but without deliberation or premeditation (second-degree murder).
4.
Law . to kill by an act constituting murder.
5.
to kill or slaughter inhumanly or barbarously.

World English Dictionary section:
1.
manslaughter Compare homicide the unlawful premeditated killing of one human being by another
— vb
5.
( also intr ) to kill (someone) unlawfully with premeditation or during the commission of a crime
6.
to kill brutally
Encyclopedia section
in criminal law, the unjustified killing of one person by another, usually distinguished from the crime of manslaughter by the element of malice aforethought. See homicide.


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Bingowings said:

Murder is the act of illegally killing someone so if it's legal it's not illegal, so it's not murder.

Words can be a pain sometimes.

Haha, that response really tickled me for some reason. I know, I hate it when words don't mean what I want them to mean!

Seems if you go down the number of definitions enough, as Twist demonstrated, it eventually means killing someone brutally, which would go with Warb's abortions and genocides.

 

Anyway, discussion about whether abortion is murder or not based on the dictionary definition isn't the sort of thing I'd like to get into. I know I am the one responsible for putting it out there, but I don't want to see it go on for pages. When you, Warbler, say abortion is murder, regardless of how we want to define that word, it is clear you feel it is the same or pretty much the same as killing a human. There is really no confusion here on what the other one means, so it is a non issue.

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In that case the armed forces and police are all murderers.

No murder is unlawful killing with malice aforethought.

Lawful killing with malice aforethought is capital punishment.

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CP3S said:

It is kind of amusing that the only two liberals that frequent this thread regularly are both against me on what is probably one of the most liberal stances I take.

I'm not exactly sure who you are referring to.

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TV's Frink said:

CP3S said:

It is kind of amusing that the only two liberals that frequent this thread regularly are both against me on what is probably one of the most liberal stances I take.

I'm not exactly sure who you are referring to.

You and Warbler.

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Ok...

Warbler has said a million times that he's not a liberal.

And I'm very much pro-choice, so how am I against you exactly?

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so 6 million jews were not murdered in Germany?   I am pretty sure the Holocaust was legal in Germany at the time.   Just because murder is legal, doesn't mean it isn't murder.  

Well, technically no, I suppose. "Executed" among other words, would be more accurate.

that is just crazy and offensive.   They were MURDERED.     I don't know how you can argue that murder is only murder, when it is against the law.

Offensive? Seriously? How is that offensive?

it offensive to the jews to say the Holocaust wasn't murder. 

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I can argue that because that is how my dictionary (and yours, I reassure you) defines it.

please read the post from  twister11

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Allowing things like murder and rape to go without punishment or consequences would create anarchy.

it would also be morally wrong and would allow people to violate peoples' right to live and not be raped

Yeah, pretty much what I was saying.

I don't think it was.   You made it sound like we should only care about these things, rape and murder, when it effects us.  

Nope. I had a whole spiel about society not being able to function like that and that we need laws that discourage behavior such as rape and murder.

yeah, so basically we should only care about murder and rape when it affect us or society.   If it affects neither, we should not "get panties all tangled up".     You argued that we shouldn't care about the unborn baby because its death neither effect society or us. 

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Again, what does some aborted fetus that you never even knew existed do to harm you or society or anyone else in this country other than the two people who conceived it? Again, nada. All those abortion that took place this very day, this week, and the past month, they had nothing to do with you and they didn't harm you. They don't effect your life in anyway.

they don't,  but I care anyway.   I care about human life.  I care about the right of a human to live.    Just like I care about all the death happening over in the middle east and other places.   I can't believe you'd actually try to argue that I shouldn't care about human life being snuffed out, as long as it doesn't effect me.   

I'm not arguing that at all.

sure sounded like it.

I never made any kind of argument that said you shouldn't care about people dying if it doesn't effect you. Nothing even close to it.

if you say so. 

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But when it comes to abortion, something deemed legal and socially acceptable by the supreme court and the powers that be, I think it is silly to get your panties all tangled up simply because your neighbors are doing something you personally find morally wrong.

so it is silly to "get your panties all tangled up", when you see people committing murder, simply because the murder is deemed legal and socially acceptable?

I mentioned the supreme court, because you seem to hold them in very high regard And they are Federal government, which is something else you also seem to hold in incredibly high regard.

I recognize that there ruling makes abortion legal, for now.   But I am not force to think that there decision was the right one. 

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And murder is deemed illegal and socially unacceptable.

not always. 

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So all the abolitionists were silly to be so upset about slavery, because slavery was deemed legal and socially acceptable?

That has zero relation to this topic.

no, it has everything to do with this topic.   You say I am silly to get upset about something that doesn't affect me.   Slavery did not affect the abolitionists.   They were not forced to work on south plantations at the threat of the whip.   Yet they were not silly, because they were concerned about something horrible happening to people.   Likewise, I am also not silly to be concerned about something horrible happening to a group of living things, I consider to be people.  

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Though I always have found it amusing that no matter what we are discussing, racism and/or slavery inevitable make their way into your side of the conversation.

all I can tell you is that I honestly thought it made sense to bring it up here.   I bet many people in the south thought the abolitionists were silly. 

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Throughout history,  there are many instances of horrible, evil things done, that at the time were deemed legal and socially acceptable.   Yet, I don't think was silly to think that those things were evil and that they should be stopped.  

I absolutely agree.

then please stop calling me silly for being pro-life.   You notice, I've never called you silly for being pro-choice. 

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This moralistic thinking is also what leads to racism and homophobia. According to the Bible homosexuality is wrong, right? So would you be quite bothered if your male next door neighbor spent his weekend lovingly sodomizing another dude? I don't think you would, because you feel gay people should be treated the same as anyone else and what they do as consenting adults in their lives doesn't affect us.

it is more than just that their lives don;t affect us, allowing them to live there lives the way they want, doesn't violate anyone's rights.   I can not say the same for abortion, I believe it violates the right to life of the unborn child.  

I don't feel like a growing cluster of cells or a non viable fetus has the rights a person has, nor do I think it's rights should be elevated above the mother's (whose body it is occupying and dependent on) right to chose not to have it.

and there we have crutch of the disagreement.  I believe it should have the rights of a person(at least partially),  you believe it shouldn't.    As for putting it above the mother's right  to chose not to have it,  I feel you have to put the right to life over the right to avoid being pregnant for 9 months.    Ask any woman if she'd rather die or be pregnant for nine months, I would be willing to bet most women would choose to be pregnant for nine months(unless we are talking about a pregnancy via rape) 

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The bottom line is, it isn't your body that has this parasitic early stage of human life growing inside of you. In fact, it is something you will never have to experience, or fear the potential of experiencing when you are not ready for it. It doesn't affect you, and it is only your personal morals (thus not shared by everyone, not even everyone in your own country) that are condemning it.

true, it doesn't affect me, but it does affect the unborn child.   Forcing black people to sit in the back of the bus would not affect me, but I am against that too.  I see nothing wrong with fighting for the rights of others, in the case, it is the rights of the unborn child that I fight for.

And at the same time against the rights of the mother (whose lives are severely affected). Damned if you do, damned if you don't, eh.

I say you are more damned if you force the unborn child to die, rather than force the woman to be pregnant for nine months. 

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Have you forgotten that the right to live was called an inalienable right by the Declaration of Independence?    According to that document, the right to live comes not from any law, but from nature. 

Show me where that applies to potential people?

1. show me where it doesn't

2. is the unborn child just a potential person?  Just exactly when does it become a person?  

Not when it is just a shapeless mass growing inside somebody elses body.

even though it has its own unique DND, and even though you have admitted it is a living human?  

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Should we extend it to sperm cells, as potential potentials?

no, because sperm cell alone is not a human life,  human life is the combination of the sperm and the egg cell. 

So once these two come into contact, sperm and ovum, we now have a human life that should be protected inalienably as per the Declaration of Independence?

I guess.  it is certainly something quite different from just a sperm/ege cell itself.

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I think you are kind of stretching by claiming the Declaration of Independence's "unalienable right to life" pertains to abortion.

am I?   I am pretty sure that many of the founding fathers would be pro-life.

Maybe. But you also think many of them would be anti-gun. (lol, the guys that started a violent rebellion against their ruing government because they were tired of paying taxes.)

Who can really say how they would have felt about it.

again, I am no more stretch the declaration of independence when it comes to abortion, than you are when it comes to uzies and the 2nd amendment.

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As for the situation of the mother's life being in danger, please remember that the mother also has the inalienable right to life. 

So then whose right do we alienate? What makes her right less alienable than her unborn child's? If they are both inalienable, then we have an issue. There is the iceberg tip of the before mentioned sticky

I don't know how you decide which one to is to die and which to live.   Maybe in that case,  you live it up to the family to decide. 

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Now we are back to a convenience thing (and I probably just reoffended Frink),

yeah, why'd you do that?

What? Should I not mention things if people find them offensive?

have you ever heard the old saying "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all"?   have you ever heard of the golden rule, "do unto others how you would have them do unto you"?     

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I find obsession with sports offensive, could we please not ever mention them again?

it is silly to be offended by obsession with sports.   In addition,  I think just because people talk and are interested in sports, does not mean they are obsessed by them.  

and you do realize there is a BIG difference between you getting upset about the mere discussion of sports, and kind of discussion that can upset Frink and why it upsets him, right? 

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 Religious people will suddenly grant that it is okay to abort a baby in the instance of rape, even though they'll adamantly argue it is murder in other instances, simply because it would be inconvenient to say that you're murdering the baby when the pregnancy was caused by rape.

I can't answer for all religious people,  all I can do is answer for me.   And again, I don't have answer for the situation of pregnancy via rape.    I don't want the unborn child killed, but it also seems beyond cruel  to force a raped woman to carry the child to term.      I think this will be the last time I talk about this for a while.  I feel as if I've repeated myself on this  a thousand times already. 

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Also, religious authorities have traditionally really enjoyed the fact that the sin of sex comes with undesirable consequences, and have a history of strongly condemning interventions that allow people to commit the act with having to risk suffering the consequences.

Condoms greatly reduce the risk of STIs and pregnancy, so they are bad. Medical interventions can cleanly remove an accidental conception. Suddenly the consequences of sex are much more minimal, so those things must be labeled as bad and made as hard or as difficult to get as possible.

that sure as shit isn't my thinking when comes to sex and abortion. 

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I'm not forcing any morality on anyone. If you don't feel right about abortion, then I strongly encourage you not to get an abortion.

and if you don't feeling right about 6 million Jews being murdered,  don't murder 6 million Jews?

Why does everything go back to Jew and black people?

again, I honestly felt like it fit.   Since all you could respond with, was this question, I guess it worked. 

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The unborn child, I suppose has to be at the mercy of those who conceived him.

sometimes, parents can be very uncaring.   I think we owe the unborn, better than that.  

Why do we owe them anything?

wow,  I am not even going to respond to this ignorant comment.

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You think abortion is wrong, and therefore you don't want anybody to be able to do it...

yes,  just like I don't want anyone to murder 6 million jews, even if it is legal in the country where it would happen.  

I truly hope you see that there is a very massive difference between those two things you are comparing.

of course they are different.   But both are still murder in my mind.

Soooo, does that make Obama, a strongly pro-choice President, a bit like Adolf Hitler?

ditto.

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snuffing that out should not be something taken lightly.

yet it is, every day. 

Do you think that many people are so flippant about it?

yes, unfortunately.   Remember you are talking about people who had unprotected sex, at a time in their life when they did not want a child.   They already made one irresponsible decision, is it so much a stretch that they'd make another?  

How do you know they had unprotected sex? I've had condoms break on me before. I'm sure everyone that uses them has had that happen at least once. Hormone birth control is really reliable, but it still have a failure rate.

I suppose I could flip your argument and say that since they are so irresponsible, they really have no business having and raising kids?

you are right,  the birth control could have failed, but most of the time when you are talking about unwanted pregnancy(and its not one via rape) you are talking about a pregnancy via unprotected sex.   After all, birth control is supposed to make pregnancy less likely, so it stands to reason the of the unwanted pregnancies that aren't via rape, more are via unprotected sex, rather than protected sex.

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Of course, it is hard for people to want to listen when they see people trying to take their rights away.

just as it is hard for people to sit by do nothing while they see people committing murder, legal as it may be.   

*Sigh*

Murder is NOT legal. And abortion isn't murder.

again, read twister11's post.

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 The Westboro Baptists for example, a lot of people fundamentally agree with their anti-war stance, but still feel like puking every time they hear about what these idiots do to make their points.

I didn't think they had an anti-war stance as much as they had an anti-gay stance.  

Wait, am I mixing up my asshole baptist groups? Who are the ones who protest at the funerals of fallen soldiers? I thought that was Westboro.

yeah, they were protested gay soldiers some of the time.   and just about all of the time, the have have signs with very offense things about gays. 

 

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Anyway, discussion about whether abortion is murder or not based on the dictionary definition isn't the sort of thing I'd like to get into.

too late, I'm afraid.

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I know I am the one responsible for putting it out there, but I don't want to see it go on for pages. When you, Warbler, say abortion is murder, regardless of how we want to define that word, it is clear you feel it is the same or pretty much the same as killing a human. There is really no confusion here on what the other one means, so it is a non issue.

ok. 

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Not if you are a Hindu, a Buddhist, a Jain or Socrates, Plato or Pythagoras or a follower of one of the many Animistic beliefs or indeed a rationalist (who doesn't believe in a human soul at all).


true, but can you find me anyone that believes a mouse has a human soul? 


Well, wouldn't Hindus/Buddhists believe that could happen, what with good/bad karma determining what a person becomes in the next life?

 

I give up.   : (

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It is kind of amusing that the only two liberals that frequent this thread regularly are both against me on what is probably one of the most liberal stances I take.

I'm not exactly sure who you are referring to.

You and Warbler.

what about bingowings and walkingdork?  There are both liberals and they frequent this thread. 

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you're nuts. 

Wow. I'm used to you being the guy that goes a long ways to defend Islam when I go off spitting venom at parts of it. You usually display multiculturalist ideals, so it is kind of surprising to see you take other beliefs and write them off as nuts.

Just because you feel there is a distinction between a HUMAN soul and any other kind of soul (your Western Judeo-Christian thought is showing) doesn't mean every else does, and just because they don't doesn't mean they're nuts.

:(

*sigh* I guess you're right.   I apologize for the comment.   But I did honestly think Bingo was just kidding when he said he believed a mouse had a human soul.   I still doubt he really believes that, but whatever.   Understand,  I was not saying it was crazy to think a mouse had a soul, I was only saying it was crazy to think a mouse had a human soul.    But I apologize nonetheless.    I was wrong to say Bingo was nuts.  

 

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I really am nuts but I do believe that all things have the same soul as humans.

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*sigh* I guess you're right.   I apologize for the comment.   But I did honestly think Bingo was just kidding when he said he believed a mouse had a human soul.   I still doubt he really believes that, but whatever.   Understand,  I was not saying it was crazy to think a mouse had a soul, I was only saying it was crazy to think a mouse had a human soul.    But I apologize nonetheless.    I was wrong to say Bingo was nuts.  

It's not an uncommon or weird belief. If you are a Buddhist a Hindu or any of those other things Bingo mentioned in his post, there is no distinction between human souls and the souls of anything else, they are all just souls, a soul that was once in a human may be in something else the next go round. Therefore you have a soul and the mouse has a soul, neither is greater than the other. Maybe in the next life you (meaning your soul) will be a mouse, maybe in the next life the souls of one of those mice you or I have killed will be in a human.

 

And yes, Bingo has said many times that this is his belief system and has been saying it for years, so I see no reason to doubt he is being earnest.

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please read the post from  twister11

Please read my post following Twister's.

 

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And murder is deemed illegal and socially unacceptable.

not always. 

When is it acceptable and legal?

 

Likewise, I am also not silly to be concerned about something horrible happening to a group of living things, I consider to be people. 

Sorry, I shouldn't have said it was silly. I apologize.

 

even though it has its own unique DND, and even though you have admitted it is a living human?  

I've said that it is definably human, human cells, human DNA. But to me that is still something very different from an actual person.

 

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Should we extend it to sperm cells, as potential potentials?

no, because sperm cell alone is not a human life,  human life is the combination of the sperm and the egg cell. 

So once these two come into contact, sperm and ovum, we now have a human life that should be protected inalienably as per the Declaration of Independence?

I guess.  it is certainly something quite different from just a sperm/ege cell itself.

So this should be afforded all the rights granted to us by the Constitution and be considered a person?

 

 

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Now we are back to a convenience thing (and I probably just reoffended Frink),

yeah, why'd you do that?

What? Should I not mention things if people find them offensive?

have you ever heard the old saying "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all"?   have you ever heard of the golden rule, "do unto others how you would have them do unto you"?    

You are essentially saying that I need to refrain from discussing this topic at all, because my views on it happen to be offensive to someone. 

 

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I'm not forcing any morality on anyone. If you don't feel right about abortion, then I strongly encourage you not to get an abortion.

and if you don't feeling right about 6 million Jews being murdered,  don't murder 6 million Jews?

Why does everything go back to Jew and black people?

again, I honestly felt like it fit.   Since all you could respond with, was this question, I guess it worked. 

No, it didn't work. And comparing abortion to the holocaust feels a little out there. Having Jewish ancestry myself, if I were the type to get offended easily, this might be something that would get me started. I simply don't think there is any comparison here, I said that previously when you made this comparison, so I didn't comment on it further this time.

 

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Soooo, does that make Obama, a strongly pro-choice President, a bit like Adolf Hitler?

ditto.

Wait a minute? Why is this one an ignorant comment? You're the one equating abortion with the holocaust.

 

you are right,  the birth control could have failed, but most of the time when you are talking about unwanted pregnancy(and its not one via rape) you are talking about a pregnancy via unprotected sex.

I don't think that is something that could possibly be verified statistically. I imagine if someone is sexually active and having unprotected sex, they are probably doing it fairly frequently, which would result in pregnancy fairly regularly. Abortion would be an inconvenient form of birth control, being a hassle and taking time and money every few weeks or months. Seems like it wouldn't take too many pregnancies before she'd decide, hmmm, I should probably wear something or at least have him pull out.

This issue is one that really needs education to beat it. I am all for limiting the number of abortions to the bare minimum, which I think can easily be done through education and ease of access to birth control.

 

yeah, they were protested gay soldiers some of the time.   and just about all of the time, the have have signs with very offense things about gays. 

They weren't gay soldiers. This was in the don't ask don't tell days. They had signs that said things like, "thank god for maimed soldiers", "god hates your tears", "the only good soldier is a dead soldier", "Pray for more dead soldiers", and "god sent the IED's" and they would carry them outside the funerals of fallen soldiers. Yeah, they are also very anti-gay, but the funeral protests had nothing to do with that.

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Warbler said:

please read the post from  twister11

Please read my post following Twister's.

whatever. 

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And murder is deemed illegal and socially unacceptable.

not always. 

When is it acceptable and legal?

so you are telling me there has never been a murder that was deemed legal and acceptable at the time and place where it happened?  

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Likewise, I am also not silly to be concerned about something horrible happening to a group of living things, I consider to be people. 

Sorry, I shouldn't have said it was silly. I apologize.

apology accepted. 

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even though it has its own unique DND, and even though you have admitted it is a living human?  

I've said that it is definably human, human cells, human DNA. But to me that is still something very different from an actual person.

not sure how a living human can be different that a person. 

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Should we extend it to sperm cells, as potential potentials?

no, because sperm cell alone is not a human life,  human life is the combination of the sperm and the egg cell. 

So once these two come into contact, sperm and ovum, we now have a human life that should be protected inalienably as per the Declaration of Independence?

I guess.  it is certainly something quite different from just a sperm/ege cell itself.

So this should be afforded all the rights granted to us by the Constitution and be considered a person?

it should at the very least be granted some rights.   It should not be treated like it was just a bunch cells.   It is a developing human. 

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Now we are back to a convenience thing (and I probably just reoffended Frink),

yeah, why'd you do that?

What? Should I not mention things if people find them offensive?

have you ever heard the old saying "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all"?   have you ever heard of the golden rule, "do unto others how you would have them do unto you"?    

You are essentially saying that I need to refrain from discussing this topic at all, because my views on it happen to be offensive to someone. 

No, you just need to watch what you say.   Abortion can be a very sensitive topic to some people.  

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I'm not forcing any morality on anyone. If you don't feel right about abortion, then I strongly encourage you not to get an abortion.

and if you don't feeling right about 6 million Jews being murdered,  don't murder 6 million Jews?

Why does everything go back to Jew and black people?

again, I honestly felt like it fit.   Since all you could respond with, was this question, I guess it worked. 

No, it didn't work. And comparing abortion to the holocaust feels a little out there. Having Jewish ancestry myself, if I were the type to get offended easily, this might be something that would get me started. I simply don't think there is any comparison here, I said that previously when you made this comparison, so I didn't comment on it further this time.

I had no idea you had Jewish ancestry, and had no intention of offending you.    But, I honestly felt like the comparison fit.   I have was comparing one kind of legal murder to what is from my prospective, another form of legal murder.     

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Soooo, does that make Obama, a strongly pro-choice President, a bit like Adolf Hitler?

ditto.

Wait a minute? Why is this one an ignorant comment? You're the one equating abortion with the holocaust.

not equating it, but comparing it.    I realize it is more understandable to not view the fetus as person, than it is to not view a Jewish person as a person.  

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you are right,  the birth control could have failed, but most of the time when you are talking about unwanted pregnancy(and its not one via rape) you are talking about a pregnancy via unprotected sex.

I don't think that is something that could possibly be verified statistically.

You don't think it is pretty obvious.   It is much more like to get pregnant from protected sex than non-protected sex,  therefore,  more unwanted pregnancies happen from unprotected sex than protected sex.   It is just simple logic.

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I imagine if someone is sexually active and having unprotected sex, they are probably doing it fairly frequently, which would result in pregnancy fairly regularly. Abortion would be an inconvenient form of birth control, being a hassle and taking time and money every few weeks or months. Seems like it wouldn't take too many pregnancies before she'd decide, hmmm, I should probably wear something or at least have him pull out.

I would it think it would be more likely that the women would put herself on the pill.    Yes, abortion is an inconvenient form of birth control, but it unfortunately has not stopped people from acting irresponsibility in regards to sex.   

I could be mistaken I would think that the pull out thing would be a poor form of birth control.  It requires that the woman trust the man ALOT, and that the man has a lot of will power.

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This issue is one that really needs education to beat it. I am all for limiting the number of abortions to the bare minimum, which I think can easily be done through education and ease of access to birth control.

I am all for education and easy access to birth control.   It should however be taught that there are still risks even when using birth control.   As you said, birth control doesn't always work. 

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yeah, they were protested gay soldiers some of the time.   and just about all of the time, the have have signs with very offense things about gays. 

They weren't gay soldiers.

some of them were. 

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This was in the don't ask don't tell days. They had signs that said things like, "thank god for maimed soldiers", "god hates your tears", "the only good soldier is a dead soldier", "Pray for more dead soldiers", and "god sent the IED's" and they would carry them outside the funerals of fallen soldiers. Yeah, they are also very anti-gay, but the funeral protests had nothing to do with that.

pretty sure some had a lot to do with their anti gay stance.