Over her? No, not quite. I'm getting there; this helped.
I wouldn't have dealt with her for as long as I had if she hadn't been one of the few to get under my skin, and she really did. Drug me around for two years with all the promises and affection and suddenly there was some other guy.
Partially my fault. I was too cocky and had too much faith that she was in my bullpen, and so I just always assumed it was official (and by the way we were, nobody would think otherwise) when I guess for her it was not.
Ah well. That's the way the cookie crumbles.