Leonardo said:

walkingdork said:

Sucks, man. As a former "chaser" I will say that it is a shitty gig that rarely ends well. Don't give up on love or sex. After a strange breakup with my last girlfriend (who I dated for 3 years) I decided to take a year off from women (relationships at least). I fooled around with a chick a couple times but never pursued anything. A year later I feel a lot better about myself and have a lot more friends now that I my social life isn't impeded by a relationship. I'm open for business, now it's just a matter of finding a woman in my home town that isn't a ham. :P

And what do you mean about second base? did she go down on you and you didn't enjoy it???

For the record, I've never really been a skirt chaser, more like a hopeless romantic,

I know what you meant, we've had this conversation before.

Yes, she did go down on me, and no, I didn't enjoy it. She was drunk and kept repeating "give me your ****, I want it". I obviously wasn't ready, plus the fact that she still had a boyfriend was a big turnoff for me, despite the fact that we both wanted that abusive prick out of the picture. I wanted to hear the three magic words. Instead I got a toothy bj I didn't really enjoy.

Yeah that does not sound enjoyable.