You should have inbound email to your jay@originaltrilogy.com address. I duplicated the error this morning from my Yahoo account for both press@originaltrilogy and forum@originaltrilogy. (4.4.1: Unable to establish SMTP connection).
If you receive the email to jay@originaltrilogy.com, send me a reply, and we can work on it/discuss offline so we don't take up bandwith in this thread...
3/16 Update: Yahoo doesn't seem to be able to connect and deliver mail to any of your email accounts. Jay@originaltrilogy.com and generalinfo@originaltrilogy.com both also returned a "unable to establish an SMTP connection. (#4.4.1)" error.