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Ask a shirt lifter AKA Interrogate this Sodomite.

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According to almost every organised religion and many a professional politician what I get up to (when I'm allowed) or would like to get up to, in the reasonable comfort of my posturepedic is a sin to be condemned, something I should personally wrestle down or an activity to legislate against.

I can't possibly speak for all homosexuals but if there is anything you want to ask me about please do.

You don't have to be respectful, I assure you I've heard it all before.

If you want to save me from myself or try and make me blush, knock yourselves out ;-)

 

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I wish to make something clear, since this was obviously mirroring my thread a bit and I recently posted something on the topic: I hold no malice towards anyone who is homosexual.  I make a clear distinction between the morals I expect of people who believe as I do and the morals of those who don't.  While I personally oppose homosexuality and believe it to be a sin, I also don't judge you or anyone at all and do not presume to know how God will account for such things.  I've had gay roommates, a gay relative, and I'm currently in a clinical rotation with a gay nursing student (we're the only two males in this rotation, and I have to change into scrubs in front of him).  While I admit to some awkwardness at the thought that he might find me attractive (though I can't blame him, 'cause I find me so attractive ;) , I don't judge him or consider him on the Hellbound Express.  I don't mean to derail anything, but rather to assure you that I think you're pretty swell, even if you are mocking my thread (I'm not sure).

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I hear so much about the gay community, where is it located?

The blue elephant in the room.

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Here's something I've always wondered...the wife and I watch several of the competition reality shows such as Top Chef and Project Runway. On these shows, especially Project Runway, there are many admitted gay men, and yet, they all room together. Shouldn't they be rooming with the women?

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You're a gay?

I though all those times you said 'partner' you were a cop?!

Well let me ask...

I was once deeply shocked to learn that in the black community, there are levels of discrimination against other blacks based on skin tone and hair. Is there anything like that in the gay world? Like... I'm MORE gay than you, or Lesbians who hate gay men... or gay men with mustaches who hate large gay men with bear claw tattoos?

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I was sure you implied in the past that you crossed both sides of the street. :shrug:

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darth_ender said:

I wish to make something clear, since this was obviously mirroring my thread a bit and I recently posted something on the topic: I hold no malice towards anyone who is homosexual.

In an ideal world malice would be like wrath or a seizure, if you feel it coming on sit in a dark or quiet room for a few moments and there's an end to it.

So really there is no excuse for holding a torch of malice for anyone but I must confess that there are times when I've had thoughts of malice towards people and some of those people have been gays but never because they are.

it's nonsense really. It's like fuming and plotting bloody murder about the excess of shine on somebody else's shoe.

I make a clear distinction between the morals I expect of people who believe as I do and the morals of those who don't.

I understand the concept but it does sound suspiciously like a smoke screen.

The Torah was written for Jews so the Levitical laws were only meant to apply to Jews. This didn't stop Jews from seeing Gentiles as ritually unclean because they didn't stick to the rules.

The laws evoked to label homosexuality a sin don't cover homosexuality per se they are more of a prohibition against ritual sexual transvestitism.

All sex outside marriage is a sin in the Torah, and the sanctions are extreme however as a lesser sin it can be seen as preferable to a worse sin as a course correction.

The catastrophic sin of the Sodomites was not buggery but being inhospitable to strangers.

Lot offers his unmarried daughters to them in preference to having his guests interfered with.

Sin is to miss the mark, to not stay on target, so in that case Lot was sinning quite a lot to prevent a hell of a lot more sinning.

Christians and Muslims who adopted these rules (though not many adopt the sanctions anymore) have already adapted them (or had them adapted by an exterior force) for their personal use so why not adapt them further?

While I personally oppose homosexuality and believe it to be a sin, I also don't judge you or anyone at all and do not presume to know how God will account for such things.

If you have come to conclusion that homosexuality is a sin to be opposed you have already judged every homosexual as sinful. You may not have sentenced anyone but if you have come to that conclusion by reflecting on scripture you already know what God will do because it's underlined quite clearly.

It strikes me as a bit queer that many religious people think homosexual feelings are a personal test from God but don't question if the rules in all these sometimes conflicting, sometimes astonishingly similar holy books aren't instead a test to see if people of faith can think outside the book.

I've had gay roommates, a gay relative, and I'm currently in a clinical rotation with a gay nursing student (we're the only two males in this rotation, and I have to change into scrubs in front of him).  While I admit to some awkwardness at the thought that he might find me attractive (though I can't blame him, 'cause I find me so attractive ;)

If he is attracted to you and you are the work of God he is simply admiring His handiwork, you can look at the beauty of a tree without feeling the need to drag it home and go to bed with it, heavens, consider the mess!

I don't judge him or consider him on the Hellbound Express.  I don't mean to derail anything, but rather to assure you that I think you're pretty swell, even if you are mocking my thread (I'm not sure).

I'm not mocking, (well less than is usual with a Bingothread) I prefer your earlier term mirroring.

I think there is a place for dialogue of this kind but I must admit to have been prompted to post this thread after doing a bit of reading in readiness to ask a question on your thread and was fatigued to read on a Mormon site the same silly nonsense one has to put up with from most of the other faiths

and bigots which seems such a sad set of bedfellows.

I don't think anyone on here is a bigot but it does seem sad to have some of the language of that sort of loathing of minority groups being used in the same arena as addressing the glory and majesty of the universe within and without.

 

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Mrebo said:

I hear so much about the gay community, where is it located?

My people tell me it's in New Jersey but I've never been there.

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TV's Frink said:

Here's something I've always wondered...the wife and I watch several of the competition reality shows such as Top Chef and Project Runway. On these shows, especially Project Runway, there are many admitted gay men, and yet, they all room together. Shouldn't they be rooming with the women?

Only very special ladies get a GBF (gay boyfriend) and they are a special kind of Gay.

You see homosexuals come in lots of different flavours and not every flavour will be suitable for women to live with because some of them are just too masculine, or too weird or too normal to bear.

It's a myth that all homosexuals like women just as it's a myth that all homosexuals hate women.

Lots of women can't stand being around gays.

It's almost like gays and women are human beings, quite spooky when you think about it.

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TheBoost said:

You're a gay?

I though all those times you said 'partner' you were a cop?!

Well let me ask...

I was once deeply shocked to learn that in the black community, there are levels of discrimination against other blacks based on skin tone and hair. Is there anything like that in the gay world? Like... I'm MORE gay than you, or Lesbians who hate gay men... or gay men with mustaches who hate large gay men with bear claw tattoos?

I can't remember referring to my better half as my partner but I must have done at some point because I don't think he has ever been a boy.

Yes there is definitely a lot of that thing going on.

I have a friend who for as long as I have known her has been mostly lesbian and has a very large circle of gay and lesbian friends and she met a chap who was presumably mostly gay and yet they fell head over hills in love with each other and got married and have two lovely girls.

For many people this came as a bit of a surprise but they were happy for them both however a few people were cynical about it or felt betrayed by their relationship which seem utterly daft to me.

I guess if you have had to go through the trial of deflating your parent's dreams of genetic continuance having a couple in your sphere who revert to the social norm could be problematic if you are overly hung up about such things, the trick is not to be overly hung up about such things.

There is also a nasty sectarian side to gay life.

You find people who fit into tribes and dress the same way, like the same music etc

People from one group can be very down on people from another group and only pair up with the same kind of people but then you also find people from one group who are sexually driven towards people from another group exclusively.

It's another thing I can't really get my head around because I've never really been one for going to night clubs and wearing a secret gay identity.

I've also encountered hostility between gays and transgendered and transsexual people.

The one thing that a certain group of gay bar denizens dread is the coming of the great pool table.

It's an observable fact that as soon as a mostly male gay bar installs a pool table the place fills up with very butch lesbians and the men go elsewhere.

When I was young I was shocked to hear a gay man working in a video rental store throwing racial abuse at his customers.

People are people but when you have been the victim of abuse you'd think the last thing you'd do is lay abuse on someone else.

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DuracellEnergizer said:

I was sure you implied in the past that you crossed both sides of the street. :shrug:

I've always fancied fellas (I can't remember not fancying them) but I've always fancied ladies too.

Not all fellas and ladies but I do find physically attractive qualities in a large number of people.

I've not had sexual relations with everyone I've been physically attracted to but then I've not restricted myself to just having sexual relations with people I'm physically attracted.

I indulged my attraction to men and women of various kinds when I was young but I'm just more attracted to men and I've been in two monogamous relationships in my life and both of them have been with chaps.

I also find men easier to live with not that it's automatically easy.

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Bingowings said:

It's almost like gays and women are human beings, quite spooky when you think about it.

Bah! Nonsense!

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What's an uphill gardener ?...

 

I like joking with gays. I have some gay colleagues and they always have a lot of humour. One laughs out loud when I imitate some gay attitude for fun.

What I can't bear too much are the "vulgar" ones, the ones who's vocabulary will limit on commenting arses. (Seems that there's a specie wich is specialised in that).

Now, I must admit I don't understand the "how/why" is Nature like this, but is there really an answer ?

Is there any gay plants, talking of gardening ?

And talking about religions, is there any light on the subject ?

 

Later.

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Biologically speaking there seems to be the same diversity of sexual behaviour other sexual organisms as there are with humans.

Some species have very little control over their sexual partners because choice doesn't come into it when it comes to some plants, spores and marine life.

Male and Female cells are dispersed and it's really up to the elements to bring them together.

There has been some debate as to wether there is a evolutionary mechanism which makes it beneficial for species to have a section of the population homosexual or at least flexible about the gender of their sexual partners (hive insects are mostly sexually stunted females) or whether it's just a malfunction or malformation of the process of attracting a mate.

There is some evidence for a genetic component being more dominant than any social one. Social pressure to not be homosexual has been the norm for the last 2000 years in the west but all that has seemed to do is insure more homosexuals have children.

 

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... mmhh.

So no writtings about it ?

 

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Bingowings said:

TheBoost said:

 

I though all those times you said 'partner' you were a cop?!

I can't remember referring to my better half as my partner but I must have done at some point because I don't think he has ever been a boy.

 I don't think you ever did. I like the 'better half' term, but I couldn't resist using that cop line about. About three months ago I got to deliver it to another dad who takes his lil kid to the same park as mine and I had a friendly relationship with.

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TheBoost said:

Bingowings said:

TheBoost said:

 

I though all those times you said 'partner' you were a cop?!

I can't remember referring to my better half as my partner but I must have done at some point because I don't think he has ever been a boy.

 I don't think you ever did. I like the 'better half' term, but I couldn't resist using that cop line about. About three months ago I got to deliver it to another dad who takes his lil kid to the same park as mine and I had a friendly relationship with.

you meen he's a .... ?

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Bingowings said:

XyZ said:

... mmhh.

So no writtings about it ?

Yeah sure...

 I meant from religion POV. Bible, Coran or what.

 

Great Google function btw. I'll remind this when someone obviously rely on others for answers....

 

David Vincent says:

They're everywhere !

 

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Bingowings said:

TV's Frink said:

Here's something I've always wondered...the wife and I watch several of the competition reality shows such as Top Chef and Project Runway. On these shows, especially Project Runway, there are many admitted gay men, and yet, they all room together. Shouldn't they be rooming with the women?

Only very special ladies get a GBF (gay boyfriend) and they are a special kind of Gay.

You see homosexuals come in lots of different flavours and not every flavour will be suitable for women to live with because some of them are just too masculine, or too weird or too normal to bear.

It's a myth that all homosexuals like women just as it's a myth that all homosexuals hate women.

Lots of women can't stand being around gays.

It's almost like gays and women are human beings, quite spooky when you think about it.

This isn't really what I meant, so I'll back up.

Why do the guys and gals have to be separated on those shows anyway?

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TV's Frink said:

This isn't really what I meant, so I'll back up.

Why do the guys and gals have to be separated on those shows anyway?

 Dont want to encourage fornication. America has SOME standards.

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TheBoost said:

TV's Frink said:

This isn't really what I meant, so I'll back up.

Why do the guys and gals have to be separated on those shows anyway?

 Dont want to encourage fornication. America has SOME standards.

And that's my point...if that is really the reason, then it makes much more sense to put the gay guys with the girls.