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The thread where we make enemies out of friends, aka the abortion debate thread — Page 6

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I can address the stem cell argument later when I have more energy.  Tomorrow's my anniversary, Still preparing for Christmas, I'm behind in work, and I'm devoting too much time already to the collaborative ROTJ edit.  Besides, this thread weighs very heavily on me.  Last night as I put my daughter to sleep, the conversation here just made me sad.  It's hard for me to address this topic, and I feel particularly self-conscious about my style of late anyway.  I can come back later when I feel better prepared emotionally.

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georgec said:

walkingdork said:

georgec said:

Some people here have apparently not heard of pulling out.

Abortion is a touchy issue. Stupid, irresponsible people shouldn't have sex and risk pregnancy, but they do. If abortion were illegal, would it be less of a crime for these people to have kids, not care for them, neglect them, and multiply the whole cycle? What happens to all of these kids?

If abortion is legal, does it provide a tool for people to use it as contraception rather than an emergency safeguard? Does it encourage further irresponsible behavior?

There's truth to every side of the debate. There's no clear answer because everyone feels differently.

I do think it's extremely naive to limit sex to purely reproductive purposes. That risk is always there, but people don't have sex just to have babies. They do it for plenty of other reasons, whether to express love or to just bust a nut.

I'll personally never understand why people feel so strongly about abortion, one way or another. When it comes down it is a personal thing. Abortion makes for nice debate but in the grander scheme of things it's not a huge deal.

 

Nice post. It does come down to a personal thing, that's why I just think that the government should not intervene and let it be a personal decision. I'm completely fine with conservatives and church folk trying to encourage people to find other solutions. As I said I personally would encourage most people to give it up for adoption. But I think advice is all the further it should go. In the end I believe it should be the woman's choice.

You just can't regulate sexual activity. That's 1984/Handmaid's Tale type of shit.

Exactly.

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http://originaltrilogy.com/forum/topic.cfm/Once-upon-a-time-on-MySpleen/topic/12652/

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walkingdork said:

This is why I question your sexual activity. People who have sex frequently using birth control can go years and years without having a kid. So when you find out your pregnant after a decade of having sex, YES, it comes as a surprise.

Fine. But it should be a surprise that there was a chance for that to happen. That's my point.

I think everyone here agrees that abortion is not appropriate form of birth control. I assure there is no significant number of the population that is thinking, "nah I don't need to take birth control, I'll just get an abortion." Abortion is much more expensive than the bill or condoms.

I know. The point is, some people do use it as a form of birth control. And the numbers show that (in my country).

And, YES, the birth rate has dropped in Western/Northern Europe and in America. It's not an opinion it's a fact. Ever hear of demography? People study these sorts of things.

Why are you hitting a strawman again? When did I ever question the birthrate in Europe and America?

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darth_ender said:

the conversation here just made me sad. 

You expected something different?

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EXPECTATIONS!

 

For my third audio interjection, fast forward to the last 7 minutes of this podcast:

http://www.startalkradio.net/?p=441

When Science Crashes the Party | StarTalk Radio Show by Neil deGrasse Tyson interviewing Janeane Garofalo

 

DONE and GONE!

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I don't understand Garofalo.   She complains about the media not leaning left enough, yet most people believe that the media leans very much toward the left.   Most on the right complain that the media is biased against them.  

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Warbler wrote: I don't understand Garofalo.   She complains about the media not leaning left enough, yet most people believe that the media leans very much toward the left.   Most on the right complain that the media is biased against them.

FOCUS!  This is the ABORTION thread.  Take the media left/right stuff to the POLITICS thread.

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You posted the Garofalo thing in here, so I responded in here.  

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Warbler wrote: You posted the Garofalo thing in here, so I responded in here.

Yes you did, sweat loaf*.  What did you think about the ABORTION point they made? (at around 7 minutes left in the program)

(paraphrasing) the abortion point made in the podcast was that more fetuses are dispelled from human female bodies by natural causes then by abortion technicians*.  (I believe this applies to Locust* ones too.)

"Daddy, what does regret mean?"*

(* reference = http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JYGoougMHSQ )

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none said:

(paraphrasing) the abortion point made in the podcast was that more fetuses are dispelled from human female bodies by natural causes then by abortion technicians*.

Erm... What's the point they're trying to make?

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Alexrd said:

none said:

(paraphrasing) the abortion point made in the podcast was that more fetuses are dispelled from human female bodies by natural causes then by abortion technicians*.

Erm... What's the point they're trying to make?

THIS.

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Doesn't really seem like much of a point.  Really kind of a strawman, actually.  You could defend ANYTHING by saying that nature does it too.

"More trees smash into people's houses due to natural causes than due to chainsaw-wielding maniacs."  So what?

There is no lingerie in space…

C3PX said: Gaffer is like that hot girl in high school that you think you have a chance with even though she is way out of your league because she is sweet and not a stuck up bitch who pretends you don’t exist… then one day you spot her making out with some skinny twerp, only on second glance you realize it is the goth girl who always sits in the back of class; at that moment it dawns on you why she is never seen hanging off the arm of any of the jocks… and you realize, damn, she really is unobtainable after all. Not that that is going to stop you from dreaming… Only in this case, Gaffer is actually a guy.

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This made me laugh.

“Grow up. These are my Disney's movies, not yours.”

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Or it's another politician saying "do as I say, not as I do."

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TV's Frink said:

Or it's another politician saying "do as I say, not as I do."

You mean like the ones who hate gays but love meeting up with them in gas stations and motels?

“Grow up. These are my Disney's movies, not yours.”

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Daily Kos argues here that if you favor any kind of choice, in this case when someone's life is at risk, then you should favor all choice.  I really is an either-or fallacy.  If he has never said he opposes abortion when a mother's life is at risk, then he is clearly not being hypocritical.  Note that I don't entirely agree with his stance, though we are rather close (I allow exceptions when mental health is at risk as well, which allows specifically for the incest and rape cases).  But this blog is not presenting the case fairly.  I also advocate Medicaid for the destitute, but that doesn't mean I advocate mandated tax-funded health care for everyone.  To say that supporting one means I support all creates a false dilemma.

Also note that being a hypocrite, while it does often invalidate a person in the eyes of the populace, does not actually invalidate the point.  If a man who opposes adultery commits adultery, that doesn't suddenly mean adultery is okay.

And after all this in his defense, I'm not even in favor of Santorum.

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darth_ender said:


If he has never said he opposes abortion when a mother's life is at risk, then he is clearly not being hypocritical.


http://motherjones.com/mojo/2011/06/santorum-abortion-health-exception-phony

When I was leading the charge on partial birth abortion, several members came forward and said, "Why don’t we just ban all abortions?" Tom Daschle was one of them, if you remember. And Susan Collins, and others. They wanted a health exception, which of course is a phony exception which would make the ban ineffective.
Sounds like he opposes abortion for the sake of the mother's health to me.

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georgec said:



TV's Frink said:

Or it's another politician saying "do as I say, not as I do."


You mean like the ones who hate gays but love meeting up with them in gas stations and motels?
Yeah, pretty much.

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Then such statements are hypocritical unless he had a genuine change of heart, (which I am more willing to grant a politician than most).  But even if he is a true hypocrite, it does not invalidate the point.  It merely makes him look weak on his stance.

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darth_ender said:

But even if he is a true hypocrite, it does not invalidate the point.
The point that a woman can't have an abortion to save her life?

Never mind, I'm sure this is ground we've covered before.