twister111 said:
Alright finally getting back around to replying to this thread.
Warbler said:
twister111 said:
That aside that homeless person is still a person. Whom pro-life advocates would fight to keep alive at the point in time when they're a fetus. Yet when born, and as many children do, grown up. It's wrong to do something illegal to ensure survival because there are choices.
yeah, if there are ways to avoid staving to death other than stealing, it would be wrong. However if there were no other option I don't know that it would be wrong, in that case, to steal.
Why should it matter that there are other options though?
because you shouldn't steal when you can avoid doing so.
twister111 said:
The starving person did something to ensure survival for another day. If you're really gun-ho about people surviving, even at the physical strain on another person against their will, why is stealing food wrong?
I(and most people) believe it is wrong to take what doesn't belong to you. You should only do so when you have to.
twister111 said:
Advocating that a person be forced to deal with a guaranteed 9 month problems on the basis of one consensual encounter. Yet something that ensures further survival for another day while physically harming no one is so wrong. For some reason I see a huge disconnect there.
I fail to see the disconnect. Stealing is wrong, and so is taking a human's life.
twister111 said:
If your going to say "What's the equivalent of consent to sex for the store to allow anyone to take food?" Well the store didn't exactly lock it's doors. They consent to people entering their store. They put a whole bunch of food on the shelves. Many items aren't behind a door while inside the store. While it certainly wouldn't be the choice of the store to let people just take food without paying. If you're pro-life that's not exactly about choices is it? Just that people survive. So who cares EVERYONE STEAL ALL THE FOOD!!!!
I fail to see the logic is this. Just because the store has food on the shelves and allows people in, does not make it right to steal.
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Warbler said:
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The point is, that starving person is still a person who's doing something to try to survive. A fetus has a village of pro-life people fighting for it to be born at all cost. Once born that village turns a blind eye "nope it's your life now. Someone else take care of it."
perhaps, but if someone tried to murder it once it was born, those same prfo-life people would be fighting that too . . . and so would the pro choice people.
Once someone is born they can survive without being a direct physical burden to someone else.
so when someone becomes a physical burden to someone else(through no fault of their own), they forfeit the right to live?
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Warbler said:
twister111 said:
So you'd want someone to have possibly hard to pay medical expenses, injuries, irreversible changes to their body, and needed time to recover against her will? Just so your choice to be pro-life is appeased to, and there's another life on this planet that still needs to be taken care of well after birth.
its either do all that stuff against the mother's will or kill the kid against the kid's will.
Alright how about this. A new law which states that those who profess themselves to be "pro-life" must then be legally obliged to take care of at least two kids either adopted, or their own genetically. Adults who are forced to take care of these kids must be physically able to have a job. This would mean that these people fighting for these people to live in the first place actually have to work to ensure that these kids survive. Not too much to ask in my opinion. Afterall being pro-life is as much of an initial choice to have sex. If you're really for these potential kids surviving then it should be no problem for you to deal with taking care of the consequences of these kids surviving.
So you think people should be required to raise these kids, solely because they are against killing human beings?
btw, deciding not to adopt doesn't directly kill anyone, having an abortion does.
twister111 said:
Warbler said:
twister111 said:
Adoption does not, and will never solve the problem of a child coming into the world unwanted already.
never said it would. the point is, with option of adoption open, you can't not say that pro life people are trying force a 20 year obligation on anyone.
The physical affects of pregnancy don't always stop at 9 months. The Hollywood notion of "getting your pre-pregnancy body back" is nice for those stars that get paid to get back in shape, but it doesn't always work out like that.
most of the time, women do fully recover from pregnancy quickly. I see many mothers at my church all the time. They seem to be very healthy, despite having gone through one or more pregnancies.
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Warbler said:
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theprequelsrule said:
I feel that the opposition to abortion, from the ancient world to today, is based on keeping women under control of men.
I don't wish to be rude but that is bs. I have no desire to "keep women under the control men". Also remember many people opposed to abortion are women themselves.
Well it's not exactly easy to be a woman who doesn't want kids. Everything in society, in terms of parenting, is built up to make a woman feel bad if they don't want kids
so let me get this straight you think many or most or some or whatever of the women whom oppose abortion, have been brainwashed by society?
btw, I would never want make a woman feel bad for not wanting children. they are a big and difficult and constant responsibility. I am not sure I ever want kids.
Brainwashed? No. Pressured? Yes. Same sort of pressure to buy a set of expensive pants because some designer's name is on it. Same sort of pressure to do something as asinine as shave eyebrows off then pencil some on your face. Same sort of pressure that drives the need to wear high heels which cause pain
Somehow, I just don't see it that way. I think some women oppose abortion because they believe it is wrong to kill another human.
twister111 said:
Besides that even if they're opposed to abortion completely free from societal pressure. There's also the whole "I could do it why can't you?" or "I wouldn't do that thing I deem as bad, I'm hating on you now." Mentality that each sex possesses. It's why some other women call a woman a slut for sleeping around. "I'm not sleeping around why are you?" "Don't you know sleeping around is bad? I'm in hate of you now." Further why some Heterosexual men are opposed to Men having Homosexual relations. "I'm not sleeping with Men. Why can't you be like me?" "I'm not sleeping with guys, you're a guy too, you should hate that as much as me. I'm a hate on you until you stop." It's a simple psychological urge to latch onto something similar to another person, then to assume they have similar interests on other things you do. If they don't and that interest doesn't fully align with what that person feels as "right" it causes them to hate. In this case in particular "I could go through a pregnancy, you should too!" "You don't want to have kids? You want to get out of it? What are you chicken? I'm a hate on you until you feel the same as I do on this."
Well I don't think that stuff is as bad as it used to be. I certainly don't act that way. I try not to look down on and judge other people and hate that way.
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darth_ender said:
Consequences to your actions? Whose actions? I think the only people who made a choice here are the parents who had sexual intercourse. Who is so stupid that they don't know that sex leads to babies? Mom and Dad made the choice, not the child. Don't you think that they should be the ones to face consequences for their actions?
So are you against birth control too?
not me. I have no objection to trying to lower the risks of getting pregnant while having sex.
What about morning after pills, would you be for or against those?
I am not really sure how these morning after pills work. Do they prevent the pregnancy, or do they kill the embryo after it is created?
twister111 said:
Warbler said:
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Is masturbation by a guy reckless abandonment in your eyes because the sperm could not get to an egg? Simply put a bunch of cells that could one day be a baby if left to grow are a lot different from someone who already sustains themselves on their own blood system. I mean guys don't save sperm after every ejaculation, drive to the sperm bank, and make a deposit to ensure it's survival. That's a lot easier then a woman carrying a kid to term. Forget hypothetical situations where guys could carry a kid to term. Guys could do this for every ejaculation if they felt so strongly that potential life of a few cells is so important.
twister111 said:
It's not a light decision to make but, I feel it should at least be an option. Taking that option away, is like making it law that every time a guy masturbates he must save it to make a deposit in a sperm bank.
a sperm cell is not the same as fetus. sperm is not human life. I am not 100% certain when human life begins, but I am 100% it doesn't happen before the sperm cell combines with the egg cell.
Sperm have the potential to help create a human life under the right conditions.
potential? yes. Is sperm human life? no. I don't advocate that we force people to create human life. I only advocate that when human life already exists, we can't kill it.
twister111 said:
Guys everyday make a choice to prevent the potential human lives that could exist by throwing out a bunch of cells. Masturbation is a choice.
people make the same choice when they decide to not have sex. No one would advocate forcing people to have sex just to create human life. Again what I advocate is that once human life exists, it can't be killed.
twister111 said:
Masturbation is a choice. Miscarriages very often are not.
true, but I fail to see the point.
twister111 said:
. Yet if that Personhood amendment passed women could've been charged with murder if they miscarried.
yeah, I am not sure I'd be for charging a a woman with murder just for having a miscarriage.
But, masturbation is very different from having a miscarriage. In masturbation, no humans die. All you do is throw away sperm cells that had the potential to create human. In a miscarriage, a human dies(assuming you believe the fetus to a human life).
twister111 said:
Considering how strict that law would have been if it passed. No exemption made for rape, incest, and stroke. Even if the pregnancy could possibly kill the mother it would've been illegal to perform an abortion due to the chance that she might survive. Medical treatments that could help the mother but hurt the fetus would've been banned. Certain forms of birth control would've been banned.
again, I don't think I'd want to go that far.
twister111 said:
I don't think it would be out of the question to also get a law where it's mandatory for all non-physically disabled adult males to make sperm bank deposits every three days or every time they chose to masturbate. In order to ensure that as much potential cells to create human life get a good chance at creating human life. Yes this would mess with guys lives, becomes harder to take long term vacations and whatnot. Still it's only fair.
I really don't get the idea of comparing the forcing of people to create life, to protecting human life where is already exists. I don't get it at all.
Potential for life, verses already living human. Two different distinct situations.
twister111 said:
All that said I might have to respectfully bow out of this discussion soon. I feel odd doing this considering this thread was created in part because of me. However a few of the hypothetical situations brought up here just hit a little bit too close for comfort. I'm sure it's by no means intentional by the posters here so I take no offence. Lets just say I've lived a very harsh life. I wouldn't be able to answer some of these scenarios in a way that's easy to convey to the world wide web. I've also come to realize that my perspective on this matter probably wouldn't be fully understood unless I basically told you what I've been through in life. I'm sorry but I'm just not comfortable saying all that so that some random googler could read up about it. I probably haven't answered the above questions in any real coherent manner. Again I'm sorry I just, some of the other stuff mentioned here just makes me think of stuff I'de rather not
I understand. I am sorry that you've had to go through whatever it is that happened to you. You have my sympathies. I had no intention of offending you with anything that I've said. It just what I think and believe on the subject of abortion. I know it is a difficult subject and with a lot of gray area.
twister111 said:
I still want this answered though.
twister111 said:
darth_ender said: Think of a woman in an abusive relationship. This man threatens to stalk her and hunt her down wherever she goes. The easiest course of action may be to simply shoot him while he sleeps. That's self-defense, right? I think you know that is wrong.
No not really, at least killing him after she's already gotten away from the attack is slightly wrong. During an abusive beat down though, are you saying the victim shouldn't fight back?
during the beat down? of course the victim has every right to fight back. But, again, I don't consider what the fetus does to the mother to be the same as what an attacker does. At very least, the attacker made a conscious decision to attack. The fetus makes no such decision, it just does what it does naturally. I also can't really call a pregnant woman, a victim(unless we are talking about a woman who was raped).