I agree that we should try to stay as quiet as possible, yes. I think we all recognize this fact. If I am privy to information that someone wants to be kept private, I keep it private. I personally don't discuss these projects outside of this forum. But unless the mods see a need to intervene, it's up to the people involved in such projects to decide what should be discussed publicly and what shouldn't.
The mods haven't had a problem with this thread for the 5 years it's been around.