Monolithium said:

I'm not looking to win. I just want someone on the other side to acknowledge that my opinion is just as valid as theirs.

I wish it were like that on the internet, but nobody ever does that. Very rarely, you get someone from the other side you can have a rationale debate with. 99% of the time, it descends into vulgar, personal attacks, or the other side just pronounces they're right and thats the way it is.

Venture over to TFN, and cheack out the arguments there. It is like clockwork that each side disrespects the other.