So sorry for your loss, Ady.
Also, sorry for not expressing my sympathy for your family's troubles earlier. I thought I had but the forum seems to have eaten it. I feel awful that my only comment of late was telling someone off.
I guess I don't have any idea what I can really say, though. I don't know how you feel. I don't really know you. To lose your father and future grandchild in the same week is not something anyone should have to go through.
Sympathy from all of us in Melbourne.