Baz Luhrmann said :
Know your limits, enjoy good times when they come and do good when the bad times come.
Anticipating sadness will not make bad things less sad.
Anticipating happiness will not make good things more happy.
But trust me on the sunscreen...
Yeah, but who wants to take life advice from the Wikileaks guy?
(yes, I know)
Ady... my heart goes out to you and your family. For Pete's sake, unless it's somehow helpful to you personally, don't feel you need to poke your head in here to keep us up to date. No fan edit is nearly as important as keeping your head together during times of family crisis. Forget this place exists for a while if it helps. We'll all be here when things have settled down. I hope that day comes soon for you; I'll be sending out all my positive vibes to you and your family.