What should a 451236 remake release look like? It would depend upon what the production could afford and support. If 'Hope' was released in late may and 'Empire' was released 5 weeks later there'd be a cliffhanger ending. But that's too much, I'm sure. If Hope was released first year and then Empire was released in the second, Maybe Phantom and Clones could be released together in the third year with the new Clones given a cliffhanger ending. Then Phantom and Clones in the third year could finance Sith and Jedi in a fourth year release. I think dragging it out any longer than absolutey necessary would only hurt the saga. Sith would be easier to take if it resolved a cliffhanger and was followed immediately by Jedi. Jedi shouldn't be too far removed from Empire. The best way to maintain consistency between all six would be to produce them as near in time to each other as possible, IMO. This is why controlling costs and simplicity of elements could be important. Anyway, that's for a 451236 order.
(Informed by the PT) The Jedi could marry ONLY after they prove for many years that they can control themselves and maintain discipline. This might make Obi a greater threat to Ani. But that's not necessary if "Padme" is also a knight.
(Project) For 'ROTJ': The Emperor might have a clearer approach in turning Luke. If expo was dropped by Yoda in ESB and again in ROTJ (and maybe by Ben in ANH,) that the Emperor has tremendous power over the will of even the strongest Jedi who willingly surrender to him, then it would be clear that the objective would be to gain that willingness. The Emp could promise to spare Luke's friends and perhaps spare a few worlds for Luke. To really torment him, Palpy might even promise to permit the fleet to scamper away so Luke wouldn't have to watch the ships being destroyed before his eyes. The remake format enables new ways to entice Luke to bow down.
I think that every opportunity to suggest that Luke and Leia might end up together must be taken (Carefully.) Ambiguous encounters that could just as much be sibling care for each other.
Every opportunity for exposition about the Force and the history of the conflict and the galaxy should be taken. The fine art of dropping expo on the fly without losing much tension and perhaps gaining it might be possible. "More than a thousand generations in the past, after the age of technology's whirlwind advance, and after the first great age of humanity's colonization of the galaxy..." or some such might foster the sense of timelessness. ;/
A 90 minute film with 10 year olds and an ET ending? (I doubt Speilberg could complain;) Then a pay-per-view and video release of the new footage plus the teenagers taking back Naboo?