Yes, I had that reaction just the other day. By someone I gave a copy of Revisited to, too. I told him then that I strongly dislike the changes in the prequels. He told me his 2 favourite SE changes were the new Palpatine dialogue in ESB and Hayden in RotJ. He tried the "good man that was Anakin died..." bit on me, but I had none of it.
Anyways, he just sort of smiled and shook his head at me RE: not buying the BDs.