Yeah, the ladies don't really like the hard fucking. You feel like you're givin' 'em some extra juice, but they're not into that.
Or maybe they are, though, they're into that. You know what the test is? You just say, "Get on top, honey. You do what you like." And sometimes she'll be fuckin' you really hard! It's like, "Wait, you like that? You like that? Slow down, I'm gonna spurt - AHH! Oh, sorry. You shouldn't have fucked me so hard."