wow, I am confused all over again. Dayv did send proof, but he is a graphic designer and could fake such stuff. The time needed to created the faked documents could explain the delay. But it is also possible he is telling the truth. I have no problem believe the doctor's office would not tell Jay anything. I worked for a year as a medical records clerk and I know they do not release any info to anyone but the patient and those the patient gives signed permission to release records to. It might be possible for Dayv to go to the doctor's office and tell them that Jay has permission to access his medical records. It might be possible to do that, I don't know for sure. But I could also understand if Dayv would be reluctant to do so. If he did so, Jay would have complete and total access to the medical records. I don't know if I'd be willing to do that even if I did have cancer.
Jay, one thing you could do see if this doctor's office has a website you could compare the letterhead design to that of the graphics on the website, I would think they should at least be similar in style and you could make sure the info on there matches what is on the letterhead Dayv sent you. You could also ask the doctor's office to send you a blank letter head and compare that with what Dayv sent you. They may or may not do so, but it doesn't hurt to ask. Finally if the doctor's office is willing, you could send them what Dayv sent you and ask them to confirm whether it was sent from their office or not. Again they may or may not be willing to do that. Just some suggestions.