Jesus what a long day
me and Dayv have not had a fight nor am i trying stir shit up i think he made a mistake since its the holidays i wanna talk about the man we all seem to care about
in the past 2 years Dayv has been thru hell
his "wife" ( they weren't legally married) put him out and took custody of hid kids he moved several times thru at least 2 states
he has been nearly homeless a few times
he has been piss poor broke and starving hungry a few times
I sent the man money with no problems...several times if need be i will pull my pay pal receipts as proof
I hired him to do graphic design and web design for me.
he asked me last summer to be his best man and i accepted. they are no longer together
the last fight me and him had was over Warb's presence on his forum.
I have known Dayv thru the fan edit.com shism here.. the fight between him and boon, the fight between him and warbler and now the fight between him and his ex gf.
Dayv designed my business cards my website and my brochures for my catering company
I always have recommended him to prospective clients
he wrote me a letter of recommendation for my masters program
we have a professional and personal relationshiop
do i speak with his ex gf? yes. both of us met thru him. he himself put her on the phone with me several times. she requested me on fb i accepted. she later deleted me with a message of why she was doing it.. I accepted that ...she is rather classy that way. we have each others phone numbers because i don't sit and Facebook all day.
do i believe that dayv has cancer? no
I think he is depressed for various reasons thus maybe not in the best of mind.
i think he made a mistake here and i think he wanted some attention at xmas because he wont see his kids and his gf broke up with him
i have made a rather bad mistake some years ago on another forum where a prank i pulled got out of hand. i never took money but i fucked over some good friends without realizing the severity of what i was doing. my mistake. i still regret it.
does day need money? yes. he is struggling bad
should you give him money? thats up to you
a few weeks back dayv ask people for their honest opinion of him and what he should change about himself on fb. heres my answer
he should be proud himself for keep going thru the hell he's been thru. he went from jobless to a manger. he went from living with people to living on his own. he from no car to a car.
but he needs to realize that it isn't the end of the world because life hands him shit. it hands us all shit. deal with it.
i gave Dayv design work and web design work to build confidence in my friend. a man feels good when he works and has something to show for it. i sent him every piece he designed for me. cards tee shirts and brochures. the man has talent.
if he chooses to remove my website from his hosting or to alter my website well .. thats ok. i hope he doesn't i still need more work from him.
i wanna start a brewing company next year i hope he helps
but this lung cancer thing worries me.. maybe you made a mistake and will admit it and all will be forgiven??
I'm glad all of the money was returned. perhaps i should i get my half of his hosting back that i just gave him 3 weeks ago? i agreed to ten bucks a year and gave him forty. because he was broke. little did i know he was raising money here..
if dayv chooses to defame my character or my past friendship to him.. well its his right
put saying you have cancer in a random thread knowing that someone would start a spark of hope thread .. well thats wrong. hate me all you want dayv but people have a right to know you just have bronchitis and are in a low point in life. no employer would promote you out of pity. why would they waste the money on training when you are a dead man walking? unless you aren't and you actually worked your way up?
i could post endless criticisms of dayv i instead hope to think that holiday depression got the better of him
he crossed a line and i spoke up.
you are all grown do whatever you want with your money. but i will guarantee he does not have lung cancer.
I have said all that i care to say.
i hope this thread locks and is unstickied but it isn't my forum