Leguman said:

Warbler said:
If I was active(which I wasn't), it would mean I had actually committed fraud as well.

I don't think anybody will say you commited fraud and I'm convinced you only wanted to help whatever the truth about DAYV is.

Just was I saying that if I'm too stupid to believe something wrong or to rush into an idea I haven't figured out as authentic or true (yes I call that stupid when I do so), I only blame myself ! That way I become more responsible again about my own choices, not to remain a victim all my life ! ;)

So you would only blame yourself and not place any blame at all on the person that conned you???

I've known Dayv a while did not think him capable of committing such a fraud. I still am not certain now. I don't know whether I was stupid for believing him or not. I know this, I'd prefer rushing into this and helping out and find out later that it was fraud, than not help and find out later that that he died.