Why not just create your own continuity, through selection and editing? That's what I'm doing - hell that's even what I did with Batman - I made my own continuity out of select comics, shows, games and movies that make sense and that flow - some parts through flashback, others through chronology.
In terms of SW, I used to follow ever single bit of EU out there, until I realized how retarded a lot of it was... so I made my own continuity and I started editing the films (even before "Renascent" - they just weren't good enough to release).Why complain about something when you can make it worth loving? Unhappiness is just a self-inflicted state of being.
Anyways, that's just my opinion on the matter...