Who is Ignoring You, and Who are You Ignoring? (was: Who is Ignoring You? (was: Hello all, I'm back!)) — Page 28

Yeah, we've covered this ground.  Perhaps a Biff thread like the J T34 one?

I wonder whose ignore list is higher  Biff's or JT34?

TV's Frink said:

Yeah, we've covered this ground.  Perhaps a Biff thread like the J T34 one?

I don't think we need to dignify Biff with his own thread.

Besides, Biff is just an imposter and not the original Biff.
 

^  I don't know that guy and he's just done the same with me. Why would it be made for if not just make you speak of him. Childish games, really.

Biff's ignoring me as well.  As AK said, it's definitely only happened in the last week or so.

Biff Lives!

Everyone stob!  I haven't made the thread yet!!!

We already have a tread for that.  If you'd stob and look, you'd see you were reading it now.

No, it's...

*sigh*

Biff's ignoring me too.

STOB IT STOB IT STOB IT!!!!!!!!

*stob*

Johnny said:

Biff is ignoring me too. He's a stupid bitch. He wants to control my life. I'm not going to put up with that. I'm going to do what I want to do, and that's it.

What do you think I should do?

Johnny said:

What do you think I should do?

Mr T says :

Along with the highs and the fun of dating, comes some of the rough STUFF. That's to be expected, but it doesn't make it any easier when someone says, 'thanks, but no thanks'.

The key to enjoying dating is to accept that just as everyone you meet can't light your fire, you're not everyone's idea of PETROL either. But that's all very well in theory. You need some practical tools to make sure that you can stay afloat when buffeted by romance's vagaries.

Smile, smile, smile!

When someone wants to make a break, let them go.

Even if you think someone is making a mistake and there is potential in your relationship, no one normally wants to be anyone else's JAILER.

By all means, ask some questions if you think it will help, but don't plead, beg or WHINE.

You'll be glad you kept your dignity when the initial DISCOMFORT has paled.

Help is at HAND. Where is it coming from?

You've only had three dates and you feel like you will never get over the rejection?

This guy probably isn't the reason; hell, you don't even know this guy.

You may just have some old feelings that are coming up to do with your own confidence; a man shouldn't have this much effect so early on; you may need to look more closely at your own DEMONS.

You may also worry that he was your last shot at children, a home, someone to STRUT down the aisle with.

This is just fear talking. RELAX, you will get another shot at fulfilling your dreams. Letting go of control.

You might think that if you had tried a different technique, worn different clothes or could just have one more chat with him you could turn things around.

You can't.

The great thing about being in a relationship is that two willing people choose it; once you can accept that you can't control everything, you can enjoy the fact that you aren't responsible for everything either.

Get back in the SWING.

If someone wanted to end a brief fling, catching a glimpse of you SLOPPING round the supermarket in your pyjamas will just reaffirm their conviction.

It also means that the fantastically handsome guy FUMBLING through the meals for one is only going to speak to you to ask you where the air fresheners are.

Even if you don't feel perky, act it: before you know it, the balance will be less act and more reality.

What were you expecting?

Something to do every Saturday night?

Someone to rely on?

Maybe you need to get a life that doesn't revolve around someone else and theirs.

You will be much more likely to take rejection and break-ups more easily if you whole social structure isn't hinged around the other person.

Don't put words in his MOUTH.

Don't imagine that you know what he is thinking.

You don't know whether he wants to get back with his ex or try NAKED wrestling with his best friend 3D.

The point is, he doesn't want you and the worst kind of guy you can try and get involved with is one that doesn't really want you.

You could get arrested for it, but worse, you could spend pointless months, years even, staring at the ceiling in the small hours of the morning trying to work out what went wrong when he doesn't even remember your name.

Get the chocolate out.

Get the duvet on the sofa, have a good sob, drink a glass of wine and eat some chocolate all the while berating this crazy damn fool that can't see what a prize you are to your most supportive mate.

A knock to the confidence deserves a little ego STROKE. Then get up tomorrow and move on.

And finally, remind yourself what this is about. Dating in itself is not a solution to all your problems, but then neither should a man be.

Remind yourself that you are meant to be having fun and taking a few risks. Then put on your best outfit and hit the dance floor again.

But don't come home DOWN MY STREET after your drunk disco dancing and THROW UP BEHIND MY BINS or you will have to DEAL WITH ME!!!

Greedo is now ignoring me.

Who?

Me too, it's prolly the same guy.

DarkGryphon2048 has me on their ignore list !

That's one I'm missing somehow, I've certainly taken a few shots at DG2048.

TV's Frink said:

Greedo is now ignoring me.

Who?

he's the guy Han shot while Han unrealistically moved his head to avoid Greedo's simultaneous shot.

No, you're thinking of Gringo.

nope, pretty sure its Greedo.

^Classic LOL Moments in OT.com History FAIL.*

*sigh*