Warbler said:

but who is myself? Is it wrong to care what others think? I would think it would be selfish to not care what others think.

It would be selfish not to care what other feel. Once again you ignore Yoda's teachings! Thoughts are like clouds and wind: they come and go, have no value, no substance more than what you allow these to have.

And you shouldn't care about my vote (that wasn't): I don't care what you think, or say in such a place as this forum. We haven't met here. Besides, if you met in real life people from this forum that you're in disagreement with, who knows if you wouldn't love them whatever their opinions and their way to put these here... Are you talking politics with every single person you meet ?... Are you chosing your neighbours or your wife depending on their opinions ?