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Well, I'm not sure exactly if this proves or disproves anything, but I did take this opportunity to contact a friend of mine who just finished her junior year at the high school I graduated from six years ago and ask if she was familiar with the word.  To my surprise, she told me it had appeared in her vocabulary book, and she did know what it meant.  And keep in mind that my high school is in Mississippi, a state that doesn't exactly have a sparkling reputation when it comes to public education (ie. if we're not bottom in the nation, we're pretty damned close).

So make of that what you will.

There is no lingerie in space…

C3PX said: Gaffer is like that hot girl in high school that you think you have a chance with even though she is way out of your league because she is sweet and not a stuck up bitch who pretends you don’t exist… then one day you spot her making out with some skinny twerp, only on second glance you realize it is the goth girl who always sits in the back of class; at that moment it dawns on you why she is never seen hanging off the arm of any of the jocks… and you realize, damn, she really is unobtainable after all. Not that that is going to stop you from dreaming… Only in this case, Gaffer is actually a guy.

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C3PX said:

 

Also, according to Wikipedia:  "Bond also said, 'Seems to me the mayor has been niggardly in his judgment on the issue' and as a nation we have a 'hair-trigger sensibility' on race that can be tripped by both real and false grievances."

if that is what Bond thinks,  that's good enough for me. 

Is it perhaps okay for Bond to use this word, without suspicion of racism, based on the fact that he is black?

well would you really suspect a black person of racism against black people?   Please remember he is not just a black person, but he was a person that was head of the NAACP.

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Yet all those same people you mentioned, both the people at the NAACP meeting and the fine folks of Camden, NJ, would happily use the word themselves, or at the very least listen/watch media that uses it frequently and not mind it a bit.

that is true for some of them, but not all them.   I've heard many black people complain about the rappers using the n-word.  Please read the reasoning that I gave gaffer as to why SOME of them think its ok for black people to use the word, but not white people.   Again, I don't agree with the reasoning, but that is what some of them think.

I know not all of them agree with its usage as slang. I read every bit of your posts, so I have read your explanation to Gaffer, there is nothing there I didn't already know. I know why SOME of them think it is okay, and I frankly could care less. That has NOTHING to do with my point. My point is, you have products and you are selling them to impressionable audiences of varying ethnicities, then you act shocked when they use catch phrases and slang that come from those products.

The fact that SOME African Americans feel it is okay to use that word in those contexts, just so long as you are the right shade of brown, and feel comfortable with having the entertainment media bursting at the seems with it, is a problem for ALL African Americans. Maybe instead of going wide eyed when a young teenager, who doesn't know any better and who is head over heels in love with his favorite rapper, uses the "N-word"; maybe they ought to turn their focus over to the cause and point finger where they belong. Instead of screaming "racist" at the poor kid who uses the word mimicking people he admires or thinks are cool and clearly has no racist intent; perhaps the focus needs to be turned to their own community and the effect they are having on people of other shades of brown need to be more carefully considered by all.

You mentioned slave owners using the word to refer to their slaves, well, the word has taken a huge shift in meaning since then. It has gone from derogatory slur to friendly slang. The old slave owners and the fifteen year old white O.D.B. fan have two entirely different meanings and intents behind that word, so why should the fifteen year old be treated like a slave owner for using it?

Maybe the world needs to except the fact that the meaning of this word has changed (not to say the old usage is invalid, but much like the word "gay", it simply doesn't always mean "happy" anymore) and not be so sensitive about it when used in a non-racist context (coming full circle, Darth Solo's post and the reaction it received being a perfect example of the above mentioned sensitivity as well the non-racist context). Or maybe they need to simply stop their people from selling that sort of stuff to white fifteen year olds.

or maybe we all need to stop using the word(black people included), and let it die a well deserved death.   

how can they stop the rappers from selling this stuff?   They can speak out against it, and some do.  But this is a free country and the rappers can sell what they want.    I wish they wouldn't, but I can't stop them. 

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I reacted as any average American would react.  

I am afraid you are probably right, hence my annoyance at Americans and their inherent lack in ability to understand anyone who doesn't also happen to be an Americans.

and I'm sure no other country has problems understanding anyone whom isn't from their country.  yeah, right.  

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You complained about me being harsh on Americans, but I guess that is my own personal N-word. I am an American, so I have the right to complain about them all I like.

I believe I've said repeatedly that I do not agree with the reasoning as to why its ok for black people to use the n-word, but not white people.   Please do not us the reasoning on me.  

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You realize that alot of other forums would have banned him for using that word.   Just go to another forum and use that word and see what happens, and then come back here tell me my reaction was over the top.  

That is pretty sad. I guess when it comes to the internets where we are all faceless there are two basic assumptions about you, 1). You are an American, and 2). You are white.

its not just Americans that do this.   Boon is German,  go to his forum and use the n-word there and see what happens.  

I don't assume everyone here is white.   However as for American,  again this forum is owned by and American and is themed around an American movie,  so yeah I am going to assume most of the people here are Americans.

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I'm not really in the mood to read an entire sermon of yours, Warb, so forgive me if I forgo our traditional paragraph-by-paragraph response on this one.

 

not sure how to take that.  btw, I'm in a bad mood too.   I feel that everyone is picking on me and I've had it.    I responded to Darth Solo in what I thought was calm, rational way.   In the past, my react would have been alot worse, and yet still people jump all over me.   I've about had it with this s**t. 

Suit yourself. You were not the only one that reacted that way to Darth Solo, yet you singled yourself out as being the victim. My original "jump all over" was not addressed directly or solely at you. React as you like. It is obviously something you feel strongly about, so I'd encourage you to do what you feel is right. I also feel strongly about the subject, so I too felt the need to pipe up and say something.

well I was one of the people you were directing this at, so I took it personally.   I guess it also has to do with the fact that I am still upset by what happened in the politics thread.

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I have heard that word used with relative frequency all of my life. 

I hadn't and I'm sure most Americans hadn't until that incident happened.

How in hell can you possibly assume ANYTHING about what MOST Americans did or did not know? You paint a picture of an America that is extremely ignorant and illiterate. It is kind of depressing, but in all reality, you are beginning to convince me that it might be true, at the very least, in the part of the country you are from.

 

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Hard to believe David Howard, the poor bastard who seemingly has a half way decent vocabulary about him, is the one being accused of being "real stupid".

well I don't know what else to call someone who doesn't stop think about using such and unusual and unknown word that is so easily confusable with the n-word.

Maybe he, like myself, never felt it was an unusual word. I'd never have stopped and thought twice before using it before I heard about this incident. I guess I am "real stupid" as well. Fair enough, everything else seems to have been turned ass upward with this whole thing, why not just go with the flow.

 

because it sounds so much like the n-word?   I would think any reasonably intelligent person would have been able to figure out that trouble was going to happen. 

Fine, I'll give you this one. Some people are pretty unintelligent to any reasonable degree, apparently, and they know what words mean and don't give a second thought to intelligent people who may be clueless to said word, and who might, very academically I might add, automatically assume it means the same thing as a word that sounds like it.

In the war against ignorance, enlightenment and education have taken a devastating loss here.

 

Most of America does [C3PX's note: I assume "not" is suppose to be here] use that word, I'll bet my life savings that not much of American knew of the existence of that word until David Howard used it. 

I find it really odd that you are so certain that so few people knew that word, based on the fact that you yourself didn't know it.

I'd have to argue that it is a word that shows up fairly often in works that most high school educated Americans ought to have read, such as many of the works of Shakespeare, for example. To me, it stands to reason that, having been exposed to the word there, had they not known what it meant upon first reading it, they would have looked it up like most sensible people do upon encountering an unknown word. I refuse to believe that "Not much of America knew of the existence" of a word that appears multiple times in books such as Hamlet, The Canterbury Tales, and Paradise Lost, two of which are in most high schools in the US still required reading.

 

I have a hard time believing this discussion is taking place. You are pretty presumptuous, assuming everyone to fit in line with your view of things.

I could say the same thing to you.

What have I been presumptuous about? Did I make the claim that MOST Americans do or don't know something simply based on the fact that I myself don't know something. I honestly can't say how many Americans are educated enough to know what that word means, I'd hope for the sake of my own faith in the American education system that it is higher than what you claim, and I honestly think it is. It would be quite a presumptuous claim for me to say that MOST Americans know exactly what it means. I simply don't think it is as uncommon as you seem to believe it is.

 

You really think that if you took a time machine back to before the incident happened and did a national survey and asked people to define the word niggardly,  that a large majority would be to do it correctly and would confuse it with n-word?

I never heard of this incident before reading Gaffer's link yesterday. I have heard that word in use since childhood, and had I not known of its existence then, I was exposed to it numerous times in high school and again in university. 

I have no idea what the results of a national survey would have revealed. Perhaps you are right, and it would have revealed that we are a dumbfoundingly stupid nation that doesn't even bother to try to learn its own language.

 

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I have known that word and heard it in use since I was in grade school. I think most people with a tendancy to read would likely be familiar with this word, or at least have seen it in print before.

you must have been one smart grade schooler and I and much of America must be pretty stupid.  

Another unfair presumption.

I was not trying to claim to be an ubermensch by saying I knew that word as a kid, I was trying to demonstrate that I don't think it is as uncommon and as unknown as you seemed convinced that it is. But you seem to have made up your mind that it was an incredibly uncommon and obscure word that no mere mortal would have known about prior to this incident, despite the fact that it is used in some of the most popular and best selling works in all of English literature.

It is used many times in the King James Version of the Bible, which has been the most popular and widely used English translation of the Bible for a very long time.

Now that I think about it, I am pretty sure it is used several times in The Lord of the Rings, and maybe even in The Hobbit. J.R.R. Tolkien even named the titular character of one of his stories a derivative of the word "Niggard" (Leaf By Niggle).

I simply don't think, and have a hard time being convinced, that the word is as uncommon or as unknown as you think it is.

 

fine, I'll give in.    I guess niggardly is more common than I thought.   I apologize for my incorrect assumption.

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The Warb is upset, i thought you and me were tight fella....well not exactly lately....

Just an old friend advising you no need to rant anymore.....Chillax

But i said its a dead tread Mr South Jersy

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please stop calling me big man.

 

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Eh, I'm not exactly fond of meat... ball form or elliptical form or phallic form or even sarlacc form.

There is no lingerie in space…

C3PX said: Gaffer is like that hot girl in high school that you think you have a chance with even though she is way out of your league because she is sweet and not a stuck up bitch who pretends you don’t exist… then one day you spot her making out with some skinny twerp, only on second glance you realize it is the goth girl who always sits in the back of class; at that moment it dawns on you why she is never seen hanging off the arm of any of the jocks… and you realize, damn, she really is unobtainable after all. Not that that is going to stop you from dreaming… Only in this case, Gaffer is actually a guy.

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"Waiter, I'll have the spaghetti with meatellipses."

Yeah, that don't sound too good.

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Holy shit! Look what Bingowings just said in another thread!

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I'm niggled.

 I have never heard this word before, have no idea what it means, and have no intention of looking it up, but being as it begins with n-i-g-g and all, I feel extremely safe in assuming it has something to do with the natorious n-word and condemning Bingowings for using it!

 

Am I over stepping my boundaries, pounding this thing into the ground too far and not dropping something that needs to be dropped, and being an ass by posting this last comment? Very likely. It was just too fun of an opportunity to let pass by. (By the way, I am now very fond of the word "niggled" and intend to use it at every opportunity I get.)

I noticed the dictionary on my Mac (Oxford American Dictionary) actually has an "offensive" label on "niggardly" and a warning against use because it can cause unintentional offense (what do you bet that was added in the 2000 edition, shortly after the Howard incident took place?). So Gaff, looks like your fear has already come true, the word is dead and can no longer be used legitimately. Even the Oxford dictionary condemns it and considers it "often offensive".

 

 

"Every time Warb sighs, an angel falls into a vat of mapel syrup." - Gaffer Tape

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Well, ultimately, I am reminded of the very last quote in that Wikipedia article:

"In theory, you, I and the columnist next door will defend to the death our right to say 'niggardly'. But in practice, will we use it?"

I feel we've done a good job in defending the use of language and education while condemning hypersensitivity and lynch-mob mentalities in regards to race.  But, ultimately, it doesn't matter.  We will lose in the grand scheme of things due to paranoid political correctness.

EDIT:  Oh, and I sniggered at niggled.  Maybe that's taking it a bit too far, but I honestly didn't even think of the implications when I initially constructed that sentence and only laughed about it after I made the realization that I was actually using "sniggered" in the context of this conversation.

There is no lingerie in space…

C3PX said: Gaffer is like that hot girl in high school that you think you have a chance with even though she is way out of your league because she is sweet and not a stuck up bitch who pretends you don’t exist… then one day you spot her making out with some skinny twerp, only on second glance you realize it is the goth girl who always sits in the back of class; at that moment it dawns on you why she is never seen hanging off the arm of any of the jocks… and you realize, damn, she really is unobtainable after all. Not that that is going to stop you from dreaming… Only in this case, Gaffer is actually a guy.

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whatever,  I admit again that I was wrong .   I concede the point.  niggardly is a common word.   I was wrong.

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Warbler said:

whatever,  I admit again that I was wrong .   I concede the point.  niggardly is a common word.   I was wrong.

 

Does it mean you've been too much niggling about it ?

 

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no, its just that I have been convinced that I was in the wrong. 

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I observe that my humour attempt failed... *sigh*

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you observe? way to steal ol' ric olie's job!

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... I swear I hesitated to post my observation in the wonderful observation thread provided by Ric Olie.

PS: and as I already observed, it's not Ric Olie's observarion thread, but Ric Olie observation thread. That's just a label.

And I also observe you need to learn your own language a little more, buds ! ;)

 

 

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^FAIL

It's The Ric Olie Observation Thread.  It is not a thread sponsored by Ric Olie, but rather a Thread for Ric Olie Observations.

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Leonardo said:

you observe? way to steal ol' ric olie's job!

Look who's talking!!!

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(that was posted before the Bridge Keeper came)

now go fetch me a shrubbery

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You are not a Knight of Ni!

However, here are some nice ones that kind of produce a two-level effect:

http://i107.photobucket.com/albums/m317/mrsnesbitt_2006/GARDEN/Shrubbery.jpg

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The unfortunate wholesale purging of the N-word has created problems for film and real history.

Take for instance the mascot of the Dambusters (my uncle also had a dog of the same name).

I'm surprised the remake of the famous film account hasn't been called Darnbusters.