Oh, whoops. Sorry, Warb. I should add that when I said I "didn't get" what was up with that word, I didn't meant that I don't know why it's considered offensive. I certainly do, and I should also mention that I never say that word (although it's equal parts not wanting to offend and not wanting to be beaten up). What I meant by that statement was in what I said later: that members of the same group of people can both lobby for its status as the filthiest, most offensive word but simultaneous use it as a silly slang word. That's what I don't get, not the reason for its offensiveness.